Ringleader41
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so there's nothing I can do regardless of my status. I'm an upper middle class black guy and decent looking.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It all depends on the woman and her background.Ringleader41 said:so there's nothing I can do regardless of my status. I'm an upper middle class black guy and decent looking.
I disagree. At this present time Europeans are the main power on the planet. Through that Europeans have established themselves as the epitome of beauty and the most desirable race on the planet. You can go to china, india and pretty much any non-white country in the world and you will see Europeans in advertisements/commercials/billboards etc.In short, if you are white, and you don't have money, you are no better of than anyone else in 2012. that is waht most white guys can't wrap their heads around.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nobody is disputing that they are desirable to a lot of men. I think perserverance's point was not to put them on a pedistal or get TOO hung up on them.Ringleader41 said:Wrong, white women are the most wanted in every country.
Mike32ct said:Nobody is disputing that they are desirable to a lot of men. I think perserverance's point was not to put them on a pedistal or get TOO hung up on them.
I've hooked up with white, Asian, and Hispanic women. But I don't get hung up on a certain kind. If the attraction is there and we click, fine.
Race stuff aside, it's like some guys are obsessed with strippers or will ONLY talk to 9s and 10s. It's fine to have preferences, but not healthy to be too hung up on one specific kind of woman. Because if you don't get that exact type, you'll drive yourself crazy.
After living in the US all my life I can say at least for me this isn't true nor for anyone I know. Out of the majority of my friends and I it is Asian women that are the most desired.Ringleader41 said:Wrong, white women are the most wanted in every country.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Exactly but you know some will disagree but to disagree with this is just being naive.QFT. In virtually all media and advertising throughout the entire world it's white features which are displayed as attractive, leading to happiness and a better life. How many black women do you see in the media with typically black features? Like an appreciation of their natural black curls? Almost never. Instead we have the almost white features of women like Beyonce, Rihanna and Alicia Keys. The media thinks if they include light skinned black women with predominantly white features then they've ticked the racial inclusion box. It's unseemly.
The influence of European supremacy is evident in former colonial powers. In places like India, Bangladesh and even China most moisturisers and skin cream include a whitening agent. In places like Ghana creams designed for whitening skin are incredibly popular. To say there is not a 'Caucasian beauty trumps all' mentality is simply naive or disingenuous.