"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why would anyone use email??

falconslax89

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I dont understand why so many of the people that are against using text messages and facebook with girls are for using email... what difference do you see?

honestly i see email as outdated... i use my school email for just that...school. to email teachers, get assignments from other students, but not to communicate with girls. i have a regular email that i created several years ago but rarely use it...thats how most of the people i know are.

i know absolutely no one that communicates with women via email...if one of my friends said "yea...i met this totally hot chick today...i got her email" i would think he was a ****ing weirdo.

maybe this is an age thing...it seems older generations (maybe 30 and up) still see email as new and useful technology, but i am only 20...anything i could want to use email for socially i could do much more easily on facebook and get a much quicker response.


anyone else notice that facebook and text haters often endorse email use...whats up with that??


oh wait...there is one female i still exhange emails with...my grandma.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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falconslax89

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i dont have any specific examples but i have definitely read about emailing chicks/exhanging emails before..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some girls don't feel comfortable giving out the number on a cold approach so they give out the email if they find you interesting enough. Its up to you to take it from there.
 

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I don't use email for social reasons anymore. Between social networking sites and smart phones(although email is accessible through smart phones) , there's really no need because you can stay connected on so many other levels.

I do use email HEAVILY for work however. Clients and co workers all work on the email level. In fact, yesterday I met an attractive girl at a pool party. I wasn't really paying that much attention to her but while talking to one of her friends, I found out she worked at one of my sister properties. Though hot and I did enjoy talking with her, I was more interested in establishing a working relationship with her so I asked for her email. I think on that level the distinction in functional accessibility exist. When I got around to asking her about further contact, she knew right away when i asked for her email that I was interested in business and not pleasure or at least that's my take.
 

falconslax89

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Tiguere said:
Some girls don't feel comfortable giving out the number on a cold approach so they give out the email if they find you interesting enough. Its up to you to take it from there.
see...same thing here. if some girl offered me her email, i would think she was a weirdo as well. ive never had that happen to me or even heard about it..
 
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