"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why would anyone use email??

falconslax89

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I dont understand why so many of the people that are against using text messages and facebook with girls are for using email... what difference do you see?

honestly i see email as outdated... i use my school email for just that...school. to email teachers, get assignments from other students, but not to communicate with girls. i have a regular email that i created several years ago but rarely use it...thats how most of the people i know are.

i know absolutely no one that communicates with women via email...if one of my friends said "yea...i met this totally hot chick today...i got her email" i would think he was a ****ing weirdo.

maybe this is an age thing...it seems older generations (maybe 30 and up) still see email as new and useful technology, but i am only 20...anything i could want to use email for socially i could do much more easily on facebook and get a much quicker response.


anyone else notice that facebook and text haters often endorse email use...whats up with that??


oh wait...there is one female i still exhange emails with...my grandma.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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falconslax89

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i dont have any specific examples but i have definitely read about emailing chicks/exhanging emails before..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Some girls don't feel comfortable giving out the number on a cold approach so they give out the email if they find you interesting enough. Its up to you to take it from there.
 

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I don't use email for social reasons anymore. Between social networking sites and smart phones(although email is accessible through smart phones) , there's really no need because you can stay connected on so many other levels.

I do use email HEAVILY for work however. Clients and co workers all work on the email level. In fact, yesterday I met an attractive girl at a pool party. I wasn't really paying that much attention to her but while talking to one of her friends, I found out she worked at one of my sister properties. Though hot and I did enjoy talking with her, I was more interested in establishing a working relationship with her so I asked for her email. I think on that level the distinction in functional accessibility exist. When I got around to asking her about further contact, she knew right away when i asked for her email that I was interested in business and not pleasure or at least that's my take.
 

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Tiguere said:
Some girls don't feel comfortable giving out the number on a cold approach so they give out the email if they find you interesting enough. Its up to you to take it from there.
see...same thing here. if some girl offered me her email, i would think she was a weirdo as well. ive never had that happen to me or even heard about it..
 
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