"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why would anyone use email??

falconslax89

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I dont understand why so many of the people that are against using text messages and facebook with girls are for using email... what difference do you see?

honestly i see email as outdated... i use my school email for just that...school. to email teachers, get assignments from other students, but not to communicate with girls. i have a regular email that i created several years ago but rarely use it...thats how most of the people i know are.

i know absolutely no one that communicates with women via email...if one of my friends said "yea...i met this totally hot chick today...i got her email" i would think he was a ****ing weirdo.

maybe this is an age thing...it seems older generations (maybe 30 and up) still see email as new and useful technology, but i am only 20...anything i could want to use email for socially i could do much more easily on facebook and get a much quicker response.


anyone else notice that facebook and text haters often endorse email use...whats up with that??


oh wait...there is one female i still exhange emails with...my grandma.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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falconslax89

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i dont have any specific examples but i have definitely read about emailing chicks/exhanging emails before..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some girls don't feel comfortable giving out the number on a cold approach so they give out the email if they find you interesting enough. Its up to you to take it from there.
 

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I don't use email for social reasons anymore. Between social networking sites and smart phones(although email is accessible through smart phones) , there's really no need because you can stay connected on so many other levels.

I do use email HEAVILY for work however. Clients and co workers all work on the email level. In fact, yesterday I met an attractive girl at a pool party. I wasn't really paying that much attention to her but while talking to one of her friends, I found out she worked at one of my sister properties. Though hot and I did enjoy talking with her, I was more interested in establishing a working relationship with her so I asked for her email. I think on that level the distinction in functional accessibility exist. When I got around to asking her about further contact, she knew right away when i asked for her email that I was interested in business and not pleasure or at least that's my take.
 

falconslax89

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Tiguere said:
Some girls don't feel comfortable giving out the number on a cold approach so they give out the email if they find you interesting enough. Its up to you to take it from there.
see...same thing here. if some girl offered me her email, i would think she was a weirdo as well. ive never had that happen to me or even heard about it..
 
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