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Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 7, 2018
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Hillary and Nancy...lmao
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What's harsh about that? of course it's conditional dude. Any association is conditional.One of the harsher truths of life IMHO is that women simply are not ideally loving people. Their love is always conditional even with those close to them.
Yeah ...like I'm gonna take the word a a fat ugly pig ...loool
This one was awesome, the caller is very enlightened. I like how he said you wouldn't argue with a 4 yrs old. Does anyone have the Boris Kodjo interview? I'd like to see him be calm while his babe is complaining.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
$20 for *****. Well damn. Pay her to clean the house and do everything else too.
Boris Kodjoe interview links: http://instagr.am/p/B-zokYsJYyR/This one was awesome, the caller is very enlightened. I like how he said you wouldn't argue with a 4 yrs old. Does anyone have the Boris Kodjo interview? I'd like to see him be calm while his babe is complaining.
Oh no, no, no lol they are much much more complicated than that. Most anyway.Reason man wants to have sex: To bust a nut.
Reason women wants to have sex: 200 reasons why she wants sex?
I thought it was just 1 reason so she can have a orgasm or orgasms?