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Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 7, 2018
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hillary and Nancy...lmao
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What's harsh about that? of course it's conditional dude. Any association is conditional.One of the harsher truths of life IMHO is that women simply are not ideally loving people. Their love is always conditional even with those close to them.
Yeah ...like I'm gonna take the word a a fat ugly pig ...loool
This one was awesome, the caller is very enlightened. I like how he said you wouldn't argue with a 4 yrs old. Does anyone have the Boris Kodjo interview? I'd like to see him be calm while his babe is complaining.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
$20 for *****. Well damn. Pay her to clean the house and do everything else too.
Boris Kodjoe interview links: http://instagr.am/p/B-zokYsJYyR/This one was awesome, the caller is very enlightened. I like how he said you wouldn't argue with a 4 yrs old. Does anyone have the Boris Kodjo interview? I'd like to see him be calm while his babe is complaining.
Oh no, no, no lol they are much much more complicated than that. Most anyway.Reason man wants to have sex: To bust a nut.
Reason women wants to have sex: 200 reasons why she wants sex?
I thought it was just 1 reason so she can have a orgasm or orgasms?