"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why Women Have Sex

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The article should titled:

Why Women Say They Have Sex

Meston and Buss have interviewed 1,006 women from all over the world about their sexual motivation, and in doing so they have identified 237 different reasons why women have sex.
 

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One of the harsher truths of life IMHO is that women simply are not ideally loving people. Their love is always conditional even with those close to them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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One of the harsher truths of life IMHO is that women simply are not ideally loving people. Their love is always conditional even with those close to them.
What's harsh about that? of course it's conditional dude. Any association is conditional.
 

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Reason man wants to have sex: To bust a nut.
Reason women wants to have sex: 200 reasons why she wants sex?

I thought it was just 1 reason so she can have a orgasm or orgasms?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This one was awesome, the caller is very enlightened. I like how he said you wouldn't argue with a 4 yrs old. Does anyone have the Boris Kodjo interview? I'd like to see him be calm while his babe is complaining.
Boris Kodjoe interview links: http://instagr.am/p/B-zokYsJYyR/
I don't think she was killing him on this interview as bad as Locario said.
 

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Reason man wants to have sex: To bust a nut.
Reason women wants to have sex: 200 reasons why she wants sex?

I thought it was just 1 reason so she can have a orgasm or orgasms?
Oh no, no, no lol they are much much more complicated than that. Most anyway.
 
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