"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why Woman are *****es

Paintballguy

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Last night, me and two of my friends were coming back from a Less Than Jake concert and one of them gets a text message from a girl he used to mess around with. In the text message she basically sais me and my friend want to get some action.

Both of my friends used to work at a local park so they have copies of the keys for these exact occasions. Anyways, my one friend has to roll to meet up with his girlfriend. So after dropping him off, we head to the park to meet the two chicks.

So we meet them at the gate and drive back to the parking lots and start walking down the trails. We eventually get down to the waterfront which has benches and all that jazz. My friend is then like, "we should go play hide and seek. You two guys (referring to me and the one girl) split up and then try to find us". They start to walk away so I commence the normal bs convo. I'm not really getting any signs and I'm not getting any vibes. All of the sudden, about 15 minutes later my friend gets back and is like we are getting the **** out. Turns out the one chick I was supposed to hook up with has a boyfriend and they totally led me on so the other girl could **** my friend.

Needless to say me and my friend got really pissed and left without doing anything. All I can say is atleast the concert was really good or else it would of been a ****ty night.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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IS|Reinhart

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LOL. good story
 

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Moral of the story is you have a good friend who understands the bros before hos concept. I'm acquainted...or I guess I could say somewhat friends with...a couple jerkoffs that wouldn't have given a sh!t if I were stuck with some ****tease b!tch who had a bf while they were getting some.
 

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A huge majority of my friends are like that, cool unless it's around women.
 

Chillisauce

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Originally posted by itishe
A huge majority of my friends are like that, cool unless it's around women.
I'd be willing to be ****teased for a while by a chick if it meant one of my chump friends finally getting some action. Sometimes you just gotta take one for the team.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Juan_Man

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At least you are fortunate enough to have good friends.
 

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Well the thing is, my friend sent her a text saying something about me and the other chick. So she replied saying she thought I was cute and what not. The whole thing is that I got lead on like a mother and screwed me.
 

Juan_Man

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Originally posted by Paintballguy
Well the thing is, my friend sent her a text saying something about me and the other chick. So she replied saying she thought I was cute and what not. The whole thing is that I got lead on like a mother and screwed me.
I some ways I think that this was a typical wingman move, but there are some differences. Your friend's girl already had his text message, so she could have called him any other time to have sex. Why did she have to do it at that moment? Most guys use wingman if they want to approach a stranger who is surrounded by her friends, not some chick, whose number they already have. Plus, if the goal is sex, most guys use a wingman who is willing to go all the way with the other girl if that's what it takes. Here, the girl had no intention of sleeping with Paintballguy, so that's why I think this is a little messed up.
 

Paintballguy

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Plus, my friend does like the chick that originally text'd him at all. He has fvcked her before and I have even gotten head from her. She is just a slut that will do anything to fvck my friend and I got screwed over in the process.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Derek Flint

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Should have ditched the PT and tag-teamed the other chick.
 
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