"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why Woman are *****es

Paintballguy

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Last night, me and two of my friends were coming back from a Less Than Jake concert and one of them gets a text message from a girl he used to mess around with. In the text message she basically sais me and my friend want to get some action.

Both of my friends used to work at a local park so they have copies of the keys for these exact occasions. Anyways, my one friend has to roll to meet up with his girlfriend. So after dropping him off, we head to the park to meet the two chicks.

So we meet them at the gate and drive back to the parking lots and start walking down the trails. We eventually get down to the waterfront which has benches and all that jazz. My friend is then like, "we should go play hide and seek. You two guys (referring to me and the one girl) split up and then try to find us". They start to walk away so I commence the normal bs convo. I'm not really getting any signs and I'm not getting any vibes. All of the sudden, about 15 minutes later my friend gets back and is like we are getting the **** out. Turns out the one chick I was supposed to hook up with has a boyfriend and they totally led me on so the other girl could **** my friend.

Needless to say me and my friend got really pissed and left without doing anything. All I can say is atleast the concert was really good or else it would of been a ****ty night.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IS|Reinhart

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LOL. good story
 

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Moral of the story is you have a good friend who understands the bros before hos concept. I'm acquainted...or I guess I could say somewhat friends with...a couple jerkoffs that wouldn't have given a sh!t if I were stuck with some ****tease b!tch who had a bf while they were getting some.
 

itishe

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A huge majority of my friends are like that, cool unless it's around women.
 

Chillisauce

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Originally posted by itishe
A huge majority of my friends are like that, cool unless it's around women.
I'd be willing to be ****teased for a while by a chick if it meant one of my chump friends finally getting some action. Sometimes you just gotta take one for the team.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Juan_Man

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At least you are fortunate enough to have good friends.
 

Paintballguy

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Well the thing is, my friend sent her a text saying something about me and the other chick. So she replied saying she thought I was cute and what not. The whole thing is that I got lead on like a mother and screwed me.
 

Juan_Man

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Originally posted by Paintballguy
Well the thing is, my friend sent her a text saying something about me and the other chick. So she replied saying she thought I was cute and what not. The whole thing is that I got lead on like a mother and screwed me.
I some ways I think that this was a typical wingman move, but there are some differences. Your friend's girl already had his text message, so she could have called him any other time to have sex. Why did she have to do it at that moment? Most guys use wingman if they want to approach a stranger who is surrounded by her friends, not some chick, whose number they already have. Plus, if the goal is sex, most guys use a wingman who is willing to go all the way with the other girl if that's what it takes. Here, the girl had no intention of sleeping with Paintballguy, so that's why I think this is a little messed up.
 

Paintballguy

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Plus, my friend does like the chick that originally text'd him at all. He has fvcked her before and I have even gotten head from her. She is just a slut that will do anything to fvck my friend and I got screwed over in the process.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Derek Flint

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Should have ditched the PT and tag-teamed the other chick.
 
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