backbreaker
Master Don Juan
update:
she's dead. seriously.
she's dead. seriously.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why this forum should be mandatory. i just had to bail my little brother out of jail
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Wow
wtf? drugs or something else?
you brother didn't dodge a bullet, the damn bomb just fell on his side and didn't blow up
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
committed suicide
logicallefty
Moderator
Any woman who makes false abuse accusations against a man and then offs herself. My thought is "eh oh well. better her life ruined than his"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
One thing I'm good about is not judging. Judge not yet ye be judged and all. I don't know her story and it's sad whenever anyone feels they have no other option in life but to take theirs. Even what she did to my brother, I didn't want to see her dead.
My brother is extremely religious and my pastor always said don't be the person that makes god have to come down from his throne to protect one of his own
My brother is extremely religious and my pastor always said don't be the person that makes god have to come down from his throne to protect one of his own