backbreaker
Master Don Juan
update:
she's dead. seriously.
she's dead. seriously.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why this forum should be mandatory. i just had to bail my little brother out of jail
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Wow
wtf? drugs or something else?
you brother didn't dodge a bullet, the damn bomb just fell on his side and didn't blow up
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
committed suicide
logicallefty
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Any woman who makes false abuse accusations against a man and then offs herself. My thought is "eh oh well. better her life ruined than his"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
One thing I'm good about is not judging. Judge not yet ye be judged and all. I don't know her story and it's sad whenever anyone feels they have no other option in life but to take theirs. Even what she did to my brother, I didn't want to see her dead.
My brother is extremely religious and my pastor always said don't be the person that makes god have to come down from his throne to protect one of his own
My brother is extremely religious and my pastor always said don't be the person that makes god have to come down from his throne to protect one of his own