backbreaker
Master Don Juan
update:
she's dead. seriously.
she's dead. seriously.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why this forum should be mandatory. i just had to bail my little brother out of jail
- Thread starter backbreaker
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Wow
wtf? drugs or something else?
you brother didn't dodge a bullet, the damn bomb just fell on his side and didn't blow up
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
committed suicide
logicallefty
Moderator
Any woman who makes false abuse accusations against a man and then offs herself. My thought is "eh oh well. better her life ruined than his"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
One thing I'm good about is not judging. Judge not yet ye be judged and all. I don't know her story and it's sad whenever anyone feels they have no other option in life but to take theirs. Even what she did to my brother, I didn't want to see her dead.
My brother is extremely religious and my pastor always said don't be the person that makes god have to come down from his throne to protect one of his own
My brother is extremely religious and my pastor always said don't be the person that makes god have to come down from his throne to protect one of his own