Why theres smaller % of serious women on OLD than of men?

[sosousage]

90% men register there to bang
about 80% of women or more just for attention or other dumb reason

but this app was not designed for attentiongiving. its for dating.


I think women were more normal before social media established its influence on them.


i had 20 matches in last 2 days and most of them wont reply, some will reply "" and ignore.
maybe one out of 20 if u look ok will talk normally and be happy to meet, but thats before her mind is eaten by tinder

imagine if these 19 women (that doesnt bother talking after match) didnt use tinder. we would have it much smoother

 

[Von]

Online Dating is 80% m'en, 20% women

They dont reply because your message didnt stand out of the 100 she got that day, on top of the 100 she got yesterday

 

[sosousage]

Online Dating is 80% m'en, 20% women

They dont reply because your message didnt stand out of the 100 she got that day, on top of the 100 she got yesterday

okay. so wheres the other 60% of women? are they not banging? or they are banging the same players that are with couple women at once?

im aware theres more horny men, but theres more women in society than men, if they are in relationship, then there wouldnt be more men at all on OLD, meaning they are not

 

[BeExcellent]

Quality women meet good eligible men in real life. So there isn't really motivation to take OLD seriously.

Its a huge waste of time to sift through online men I'd never consider dating when I can go out for a drink or a quick bite nearby & meet quality men I find attractive. Then there's social circle where I meet plenty of men.

So in short, good women do fine in real life and don't need to waste time on OLD.

 

[Trump]

So in short, good women do fine in real life and don't need to waste time on OLD.

Good men too.

 

[sosousage]

Good men too.

so you say 90% of women are good quality and 80% of men are bad quality?

 

[MatureDJ]

It's the same reason that the millions of "brother sp3rm" to the one that made you got rejected.

 

[MatureDJ]

okay. so wheres the other 60% of women? are they not banging? or they are banging the same players that are with couple women at once?

im aware theres more horny men, but theres more women in society than men, if they are in relationship, then there wouldnt be more men at all on OLD, meaning they are not

And most men want to bang the young & attractive women.

 

[The Duke]

Attention/Validation/Resources for women is the equivalent to sechs for men. By talking/communicating/right swiping women on OLD you are providing something they desire with out getting payment(sechs).

If you want to see the reverse of this, visit a $trip club. These girls are trying to sell $20 lap dances. They get rejected more times than not. They have to invest their time by sitting on a guys lap talking and touching on him in hopes that he will be more apt to buy a lap dance at some point. I've had girls sit on my lap for 30min before they worked up the courage to ask me if I wanted a dance and I still rejected them.

The point is, you have to get better at assessing the situation. Spend your time wisely. Invest in only those that you feel will pay off.

@sosousage you listed 3 girls you were talking to whom all flaked out. I wasn't surprised. They were all throwing up road blocks and showed low interest. You weren't attractive enough for them to go on a date, only good enough to use for attention/validation. Learn to recognize the signs and cut it off. Spend your time on other options that have a better chance of leading to sechs.

A girl with high interest will make it known. The conversation with these will flow quite nicely and she will do her part to keep it going.

 

[LarryLiesureSuit]

I have been in a few dating sites.

The ration is 2:3. That is 2 woman for 3 men.

If you do the math. 2 in 10 girls are decent. 1 in 20 actually answers.... and of all these 1 in 50 dont flake.

So as you can realize, you dont have much of a chance there.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Quality women meet good eligible men in real life. So there isn't really motivation to take OLD seriously.

Its a huge waste of time to sift through online men I'd never consider dating when I can go out for a drink or a quick bite nearby & meet quality men I find attractive. Then there's social circle where I meet plenty of men.

So in short, good women do fine in real life and don't need to waste time on OLD.

This isn't true at all.

Good women are usually tied up with school and work and resort to online dating rather than frequenting bars and clubs.

 

[cola]

This isn't true at all.

Good women are usually tied up with school and work and resort to online dating rather than frequenting bars and clubs.

Lol?
85% of women are on OLD for validation, attention. 15% are open to dating, maybe 3 percent are open to dating YOU.

 

[Urbanyst]

Quality women meet good eligible men in real life. So there isn't really motivation to take OLD seriously.

Its a huge waste of time to sift through online men I'd never consider dating when I can go out for a drink or a quick bite nearby & meet quality men I find attractive. Then there's social circle where I meet plenty of men.

So in short, good women do fine in real life and don't need to waste time on OLD.

You've got to stop bragging about all the men you meet. Makes you sound like you're either getting passed around a lot or you're not REALLY meeting anyone of quality who will stick around lol.

Seriously though.

 

[E.T.]

You've got to stop bragging about all the men you meet. Makes you sound like you're either getting passed around a lot or you're not REALLY meeting anyone of quality who will stick around lol.

Seriously though.

BESexcellent is a high priced escort. Duh

 

[marmel75]

I have been in a few dating sites.

The ration is 2:3. That is 2 woman for 3 men.

If you do the math. 2 in 10 girls are decent. 1 in 20 actually answers.... and of all these 1 in 50 dont flake.

So as you can realize, you dont have much of a chance there.

If those are your ratios the problem is most definitely you and not the sites. But it's far easier to blame anything else than take a good hard look in the mirror and make your self more attractive.

 

[BeExcellent]

This isn't true at all.

Good women are usually tied up with school and work and resort to online dating rather than frequenting bars and clubs.

Depends how developed her social network is. If she is introverted or doesn't have much of a social network I don't entirely disagree. I actually know an attractive female engineer who is on OLD.

She gets to tired of explaining to men why she's on there (because apparently men don't initially believe she is as presented)...and she has to weed through plenty of junk contacts.

She is starting to get out more IRL and she is finding better results versus time invested IRL even though the convenience factor on OLD is better.

Too many men grossly misrepresent themselves on OLD too. Just like y'all complain about the women doing it. Men are often just as guilty.

 

[Trump]

Attention/Validation/Resources for women is the equivalent to sechs for men. By talking/communicating/right swiping women on OLD you are providing something they desire with out getting payment(sechs).

If you want to see the reverse of this, visit a $trip club. These girls are trying to sell $20 lap dances. They get rejected more times than not. They have to invest their time by sitting on a guys lap talking and touching on him in hopes that he will be more apt to buy a lap dance at some point. I've had girls sit on my lap for 30min before they worked up the courage to ask me if I wanted a dance and I still rejected them.

Come on bro, you are comparing a guy trying to connect with a woman online to a you rejecting a Stripper for a $100 lap dance after she has been violated 18 different ways from Sunday the day before?

That's too much.

A girl with high interest will make it known. The conversation with these will flow quite nicely and she will do her part to keep it going.

Not high interest in you personally. High interest for your Attention/Validation/Resources.

 

[Fruitbat]

Quality women meet good eligible men in real life. So there isn't really motivation to take OLD seriously.

Its a huge waste of time to sift through online men I'd never consider dating when I can go out for a drink or a quick bite nearby & meet quality men I find attractive. Then there's social circle where I meet plenty of men.

So in short, good women do fine in real life and don't need to waste time on OLD.

You are just guaranteeing they are in the game.

Plenty of quality men aren't great at talking to women in public. Physicists, computer geniuses....the men I know socially who are good at this aren't what I would term "quality"

Not picking a fight BEE, but you're talking about sexually confident men who take the initiative. These can be anything from captains of industry to lowlives.

Plenty of good women on OLD in my experience. A lot of people over 30 struggle to meet potential partners, and I cannot be bothered to hang around in cafes/pubs and walk up to strangers on the street when I could be working, studying etc.

It depends on your definition of quality and it's definately true confidence seems to be pretty much high on the female wish list.

OLD works well for me because I am not built or particularly attractive, and weirdly, against all logic, I find real life approaching more looks based than OLD. I get tons, loads more rejection in real life than OLD, yet I have only had like 2 OLD dates out of about 15 which didn't go further.

I live in a parallel universe to a lot of people on here.

 

[sosousage]

You are just guaranteeing they are in the game.

Plenty of quality men aren't great at talking to women in public. Physicists, computer geniuses....the men I know socially who are good at this aren't what I would term "quality"

Not picking a fight BEE, but you're talking about sexually confident men who take the initiative. These can be anything from captains of industry to lowlives.

Plenty of good women on OLD in my experience. A lot of people over 30 struggle to meet potential partners, and I cannot be bothered to hang around in cafes/pubs and walk up to strangers on the street when I could be working, studying etc.

It depends on your definition of quality and it's definately true confidence seems to be pretty much high on the female wish list.

theres no such thing as computer geniuses for women

 

[Fruitbat]

theres no such thing as computer geniuses for women

I know some reasonably non nerdy IT guys who are loaded but I doubt they'd approach a woman in a bar, but they would be a great choice for a lot of women.

Sadly, the guys who would be great at this situation are basically 90% of SS and would be looking for the clunge and a swift exit.