"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol, the Alpha males aren't threatened, just the hurt people who have hard times with women. We try to help everyone, but you cant help the people who dont want to be helped. So, good luck. Dont preach bull**** like be nice and you'll be loved(we all know how THAT turns out :D) and your most welcome here.
Lads, having a feminine element on the site will surely help us..Not in giving advice maybe but in other aspects. Stop being so uptight and insecure, you just make yourselves and the site look bad.
 

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Enough.

Our objective was to go bring a pair of fresh eyes to the people at LoveShack and now that they're coming here to get different perspectives some of you guys are pissed? They may be hostile because we went there en masse. Give them a chance to burn off the anxiety and allow them the time to read from the lives of all of us.

We can't have it both ways. You can't have an agenda, complete that agenda and then regret that you ever completed the fvcking goal you set out to accomplish. It doesn't work like that.

I welcome all of the new SSoldiers who come from LS. There is some rampant immaturity here but we try to keep our serious talk and contemplations in the Mature Men's forum.

I expect a lot of bantering and exchanges to come. Nothing but good can come from expressing our thoughts and exchanging ideas.

Welcome to SoSuave,
KarmaSutra
 

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How is this any different than real world: A female seeking for attention that she has to cause a ruckus and draw in the suckers by telling them how wonderful they are? This thread is nothing more than a self-empowering, pity-seeking thread. I think most MEN will agree with me on this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lishy said:
Awww well I guess I am gonna have to get used to being told to push off? :down:
Well you don't have to get used to it but it's happening. What can you do other than accept the situation at hand?

I'm with Karma. Whatever I'm saying here is tounge-in-cheek.
 

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The Bat said:
How is this any different than real world: A female seeking for attention that she has to cause a ruckus and draw in the suckers by telling them how wonderful they are? This thread is nothing more than a self-empowering, pity-seeking thread. I think most MEN will agree with me on this.
hey now, she might not be anything like the other person that was here yesterday at all. perhaps she is the next lady to come to the site that actually offers honest thoughts.
every woman that comes to this forum has to take the time to get a feel for the board, and so far, back at her other site, they already have her believing that there is no help here at all. the actual words are "it's the blind leading the blind over at sostupid."
as she seeks to find what this board is about, she is finding harsh grounds because she is new and came from that site.
 

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All I have to say is those who first point a finger have three pointing back at them. Just don't expect preferential treatment here like females get at Loveshack.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ah, don't sweat it. Some guys here just get too involved with the forums, lack of a life, I dunno.
 
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It's obvious why they hate us over at LoveShack.. The sosuave revolution has begun and men are getting the power back. They can't stand it over there.
 

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SilverSonnet said:
Hey, can someone send me some of these threads from LS? i would like to see the bull they're posting :D
Let me summarize LS in a nutshell. Friends first then sex, anything else is just "creepy". Use the pvssy and rationate it out as leverage to get whatever you want from a male. Men, just be yourself, and nice and fate will award you with a "perfect" woman, some day. The remainder is post about women dating or in a relationship causing needless drama and complaining about problems they mostly created or simply imagined existed. That's pretty much the story over there.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
It's obvious why they hate us over at LoveShack.. The sosuave revolution has begun and men are getting the power back. They can't stand it over there.

Where there's smoke there's fire.

I smell some smoke with this post . . .
 

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Lishy said:
Thank you Silver! :)
Your laughable "advice" is welcome here, but as one person put it "You dont get advice from a fish when fishing. You get advice from a fisherman." It seems to the males here, that you are here to either tease and taunt males who are having a hard time on the dating scene, or to sabotage any real chances with women, with miserable "womanly" advice. No hate here, just trying to be objective.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lishy said:
I joined this site 2 days ago.:cheer:

I did not know this site existed, and even if I did I would not have looked over it as it is primarily for men and I am female.

Due to some of your patrons planning an attack on a site that I do frequent (Loveshack) my attention was brought to a particular thread over here and to be honest I like the banter you guys have here and I thought the planned 'attack' was quite hilarious.

Now I love it at Loveshack as I have got to know quite a few lovely people (Touche being one of them) But I do agree that it is over moderated and you really cannot break one small rule without being penalised. I like the fact that the mods here are not like Hitler and I really like the attitude of SOME of you.

Some of you have welcomed me and been very kind indeed BUT on the other hand some of you have been obnoxious and downright rude! :cuss:

I have been called many names in the few jokey post's I have made, including a troll, an attention seeker, a transexual and even a venereal disease!!! This is so not cool and if I had a weak disposition I would have deleted my account and ran back to Loveshack

Instead I will stay here for a while and ignore the rude bastards!:p

Thank you to everyone who have been warm and welcoming and to the other rude buggers, when you see me post a thread just jog on and read someone else's! :moon:

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Just looking at your post made me feel like I was looking at a 14 year old's myspace blog or something. And I had to take a gander at that LoveShack place (after someone mentioned it) and my God. Is it a bunch of women giving TERRIBLE advice to men? It's like a bunch of prisoners asking their torturers how to feel less pain when they cut their balls off.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
Where there's smoke there's fire.

I smell some smoke with this post . . .

It's true. Douche was over in my thread teasing me last night, hoping I would fail on my date. This is after she was pretending to be a man.

Jokes on YOU Douche!
 

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SilverSonnet said:
Hey, can someone send me some of these threads from LS? i would like to see the bull they're posting :D
Most of the threads have been deleted. The mods over there really like to keep a tight reign over what they deem "appropriate." They still left the one I started about creating attraction, though (written from the POV of a FVCKING CHUMP). I don't know why they chose to delete every single other post I wrote, but decided to keep this one up. Go figure...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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