Lishy
Senior Don Juan
I think he does lolCommando said:I think he likes you.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I think he does lolCommando said:I think he likes you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well you don't have to get used to it but it's happening. What can you do other than accept the situation at hand?Lishy said:Awww well I guess I am gonna have to get used to being told to push off?![]()
hey now, she might not be anything like the other person that was here yesterday at all. perhaps she is the next lady to come to the site that actually offers honest thoughts.The Bat said:How is this any different than real world: A female seeking for attention that she has to cause a ruckus and draw in the suckers by telling them how wonderful they are? This thread is nothing more than a self-empowering, pity-seeking thread. I think most MEN will agree with me on this.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Let me summarize LS in a nutshell. Friends first then sex, anything else is just "creepy". Use the pvssy and rationate it out as leverage to get whatever you want from a male. Men, just be yourself, and nice and fate will award you with a "perfect" woman, some day. The remainder is post about women dating or in a relationship causing needless drama and complaining about problems they mostly created or simply imagined existed. That's pretty much the story over there.SilverSonnet said:Hey, can someone send me some of these threads from LS? i would like to see the bull they're posting![]()
My Name is Nobody said:It's obvious why they hate us over at LoveShack.. The sosuave revolution has begun and men are getting the power back. They can't stand it over there.
Your laughable "advice" is welcome here, but as one person put it "You dont get advice from a fish when fishing. You get advice from a fisherman." It seems to the males here, that you are here to either tease and taunt males who are having a hard time on the dating scene, or to sabotage any real chances with women, with miserable "womanly" advice. No hate here, just trying to be objective.Lishy said:Thank you Silver!![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just looking at your post made me feel like I was looking at a 14 year old's myspace blog or something. And I had to take a gander at that LoveShack place (after someone mentioned it) and my God. Is it a bunch of women giving TERRIBLE advice to men? It's like a bunch of prisoners asking their torturers how to feel less pain when they cut their balls off.Lishy said:I joined this site 2 days ago.:cheer:
I did not know this site existed, and even if I did I would not have looked over it as it is primarily for men and I am female.
Due to some of your patrons planning an attack on a site that I do frequent (Loveshack) my attention was brought to a particular thread over here and to be honest I like the banter you guys have here and I thought the planned 'attack' was quite hilarious.
Now I love it at Loveshack as I have got to know quite a few lovely people (Touche being one of them) But I do agree that it is over moderated and you really cannot break one small rule without being penalised. I like the fact that the mods here are not like Hitler and I really like the attitude of SOME of you.
Some of you have welcomed me and been very kind indeed BUT on the other hand some of you have been obnoxious and downright rude! :cuss:
I have been called many names in the few jokey post's I have made, including a troll, an attention seeker, a transexual and even a venereal disease!!! This is so not cool and if I had a weak disposition I would have deleted my account and ran back to Loveshack
Instead I will stay here for a while and ignore the rude bastards!![]()
Thank you to everyone who have been warm and welcoming and to the other rude buggers, when you see me post a thread just jog on and read someone else's! :moon:
xx
KarmaSutra said:Where there's smoke there's fire.
I smell some smoke with this post . . .
Most of the threads have been deleted. The mods over there really like to keep a tight reign over what they deem "appropriate." They still left the one I started about creating attraction, though (written from the POV of a FVCKING CHUMP). I don't know why they chose to delete every single other post I wrote, but decided to keep this one up. Go figure...SilverSonnet said:Hey, can someone send me some of these threads from LS? i would like to see the bull they're posting![]()
Nighthawk said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.