Lishy
Senior Don Juan
I think he does lolCommando said:I think he likes you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think he does lolCommando said:I think he likes you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well you don't have to get used to it but it's happening. What can you do other than accept the situation at hand?Lishy said:Awww well I guess I am gonna have to get used to being told to push off?![]()
hey now, she might not be anything like the other person that was here yesterday at all. perhaps she is the next lady to come to the site that actually offers honest thoughts.The Bat said:How is this any different than real world: A female seeking for attention that she has to cause a ruckus and draw in the suckers by telling them how wonderful they are? This thread is nothing more than a self-empowering, pity-seeking thread. I think most MEN will agree with me on this.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Let me summarize LS in a nutshell. Friends first then sex, anything else is just "creepy". Use the pvssy and rationate it out as leverage to get whatever you want from a male. Men, just be yourself, and nice and fate will award you with a "perfect" woman, some day. The remainder is post about women dating or in a relationship causing needless drama and complaining about problems they mostly created or simply imagined existed. That's pretty much the story over there.SilverSonnet said:Hey, can someone send me some of these threads from LS? i would like to see the bull they're posting![]()
My Name is Nobody said:It's obvious why they hate us over at LoveShack.. The sosuave revolution has begun and men are getting the power back. They can't stand it over there.
Your laughable "advice" is welcome here, but as one person put it "You dont get advice from a fish when fishing. You get advice from a fisherman." It seems to the males here, that you are here to either tease and taunt males who are having a hard time on the dating scene, or to sabotage any real chances with women, with miserable "womanly" advice. No hate here, just trying to be objective.Lishy said:Thank you Silver!![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just looking at your post made me feel like I was looking at a 14 year old's myspace blog or something. And I had to take a gander at that LoveShack place (after someone mentioned it) and my God. Is it a bunch of women giving TERRIBLE advice to men? It's like a bunch of prisoners asking their torturers how to feel less pain when they cut their balls off.Lishy said:I joined this site 2 days ago.:cheer:
I did not know this site existed, and even if I did I would not have looked over it as it is primarily for men and I am female.
Due to some of your patrons planning an attack on a site that I do frequent (Loveshack) my attention was brought to a particular thread over here and to be honest I like the banter you guys have here and I thought the planned 'attack' was quite hilarious.
Now I love it at Loveshack as I have got to know quite a few lovely people (Touche being one of them) But I do agree that it is over moderated and you really cannot break one small rule without being penalised. I like the fact that the mods here are not like Hitler and I really like the attitude of SOME of you.
Some of you have welcomed me and been very kind indeed BUT on the other hand some of you have been obnoxious and downright rude! :cuss:
I have been called many names in the few jokey post's I have made, including a troll, an attention seeker, a transexual and even a venereal disease!!! This is so not cool and if I had a weak disposition I would have deleted my account and ran back to Loveshack
Instead I will stay here for a while and ignore the rude bastards!![]()
Thank you to everyone who have been warm and welcoming and to the other rude buggers, when you see me post a thread just jog on and read someone else's! :moon:
xx
KarmaSutra said:Where there's smoke there's fire.
I smell some smoke with this post . . .
Most of the threads have been deleted. The mods over there really like to keep a tight reign over what they deem "appropriate." They still left the one I started about creating attraction, though (written from the POV of a FVCKING CHUMP). I don't know why they chose to delete every single other post I wrote, but decided to keep this one up. Go figure...SilverSonnet said:Hey, can someone send me some of these threads from LS? i would like to see the bull they're posting![]()
Nighthawk said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.