"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why the girls in my class are smiling luaghin at me

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since i asked this gal out i think i now what the class mates in my class are laughing about- i seen some of the girls faces and even guys faces smile when they see me checking out and looking at other girls-maybe its b/c i stare for so long hehehe. i think the gossip of the girls have spread so fast b/ c i get a lot of giggling smiles from classmates and ppl i thought i would not get it from. also b/c maybe b/c the girl have told other girls that that i flirt with every other girl, all the time. maybe thats why. i for sure not it has spread, i think i done somehtine wrong i am so unexperieced, maybe ask too many questions, ask the girl out too fast, stare at other girls. flirt and chatty with other girls., maybe its the way i laugh since i do laugh at my jokes heheheha which u could say is unusual.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Joe the way your grammatically structure your posts always makes me chuckle.

I hope it is an english class you are taking.

Keep up the good work.
 
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All you gotta do is play it cool son ;)

No regrets!

And for the record, never ask more than 5 fives out that are in the same class.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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