"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why the girls in my class are smiling luaghin at me

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since i asked this gal out i think i now what the class mates in my class are laughing about- i seen some of the girls faces and even guys faces smile when they see me checking out and looking at other girls-maybe its b/c i stare for so long hehehe. i think the gossip of the girls have spread so fast b/ c i get a lot of giggling smiles from classmates and ppl i thought i would not get it from. also b/c maybe b/c the girl have told other girls that that i flirt with every other girl, all the time. maybe thats why. i for sure not it has spread, i think i done somehtine wrong i am so unexperieced, maybe ask too many questions, ask the girl out too fast, stare at other girls. flirt and chatty with other girls., maybe its the way i laugh since i do laugh at my jokes heheheha which u could say is unusual.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Joe the way your grammatically structure your posts always makes me chuckle.

I hope it is an english class you are taking.

Keep up the good work.
 
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All you gotta do is play it cool son ;)

No regrets!

And for the record, never ask more than 5 fives out that are in the same class.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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