"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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why the girls in my class are smiling luaghin at me

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since i asked this gal out i think i now what the class mates in my class are laughing about- i seen some of the girls faces and even guys faces smile when they see me checking out and looking at other girls-maybe its b/c i stare for so long hehehe. i think the gossip of the girls have spread so fast b/ c i get a lot of giggling smiles from classmates and ppl i thought i would not get it from. also b/c maybe b/c the girl have told other girls that that i flirt with every other girl, all the time. maybe thats why. i for sure not it has spread, i think i done somehtine wrong i am so unexperieced, maybe ask too many questions, ask the girl out too fast, stare at other girls. flirt and chatty with other girls., maybe its the way i laugh since i do laugh at my jokes heheheha which u could say is unusual.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Joe the way your grammatically structure your posts always makes me chuckle.

I hope it is an english class you are taking.

Keep up the good work.
 
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All you gotta do is play it cool son ;)

No regrets!

And for the record, never ask more than 5 fives out that are in the same class.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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