"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why some of you aren't improving...

Touchout

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Remember when you found this site, it was like finding the golden key to all of life's problems. You immediately dropped everything you were doing and started reading and processing as much information as you possibly could. As you were reading you said to yourself, "I can't wait to use this on (oneitis) tomorrow, now I can finally get her!" and you get excited to use some of the techniques you've found.

But tomorrow comes, you see the girl, and you become scared...you freeze up, just like you did before you found this site. So you come home, read some more, say to yourself your going to approach her tomorrow. Tomorrow comes, still no approach.

Now your thinking to yourself that you aren't an AFC anymore, so you start posting some advice on this site, just regurgitating whatever you've read in your own words. And sure, people will praise you for it, they may even believe your a true DJ, but you are still yet to make a single approach.

Now you've reached "Master Don Juan", the 500 post count, and have read every four and five star thread out there, have read through the DJ Bible, and have created some epic posts of your own, yet you still haven't made a SINGLE approach.



What's the point of this? (besides a little auto-biography) YOUR STILL THE SAME AFC WHO CAME STUMBLING ACROSS THIS SITE. Sure, you know everything there is to know, but what good does it do if you don't have any EXPERIENCE to back it up.

EXPERIENCE is all that matters in this game, and once you go out and start getting some it's easy to see who are real DJ's and who are just KBJ's.

The dreaded KBJ, the guy who always tells you it's IMPOSSIBLE to do this and impossible to do that, but has he ever experienced any of these things? Go out there, experience things for yourself. People say it's impossible to get out of the friend zone, prove them wrong!

One of the best bits of advice you can take off this board is confidence is EVERYTHING. Grow a set, get out there and start improving.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ElStud

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Well, my problem really isn't approaching the girl anymore, it's actually having a conversation with the girl and making her interested. If the girl doesn't respond, that just means she's not interested.
 

Touchout

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ElStud said:
Well, my problem really isn't approaching the girl anymore, it's actually having a conversation with the girl and making her interested. If the girl doesn't respond, that just means she's not interested.

That is all part of the approach my friend. You have to grind through it, push through the awkwardness...your going to have to do A LOT of talking to get her to open up to you. I forget who it is, but someone on this site always preaches the 90you-10her percentage when you first meet someone.
 

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Touchout said:
That is all part of the approach my friend. You have to grind through it, push through the awkwardness...your going to have to do A LOT of talking to get her to open up to you. I forget who it is, but someone on this site always preaches the 90you-10her percentage when you first meet someone.
I know, I was just implying that I don't freeze up anymore when I want to approach girls, I just go up to them. The actual approach is what I need to work on.
 

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i got better from this site... just in general. sometimes im still nervous when approaching and stuff but i think thats normal. the nervousness is just a killer and for some people it just wont go away.

oneitis=bad
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No shet, some ppl have been here for years and still ask things like how to approach a girl, the funny part, same person dares to give advice when he cant take care of his own problems. Dont tell another guy to workout when you youself are out of shape..
 
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