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You missed the part where she suspected you of cheating and was right about that. There are CHILDREN INVOLVED for ****s sake. They get attached and see you as potential stepfather and then you bail out for no reason than "muh d!ck". The mother is right that nobody wants a single mom and you confirmed it. Stop wasting her time.and then she pulls away like nothing happened between us
Nothing wrong with it but not sure how allowing someone to sleep at your house 10 nights in a row or meeting each other's families qualifies as casual.That's fine for a childless man casually having sex with a single mom.
That's true. My girlfriends don't sleep at my place for 10 nights in a row.Nothing wrong with it but not sure how allowing someone to sleep at your house 10 nights in a row or meeting each other's families qualifies as casual.
That goes far beyond any possible definition of casual
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Freud used to say that we unconsciously look for something that is familiar and we feel attracted to it. That might be a reason why she is pulling away.She's told me she's never have had this much fun with anyone, she even cried on my chest once that nobody has treated her this well. Her dad was never in the pic and her mom died last year, and sometimes she told her thet she never was gonna be happy, a typical toxic mother, her ex wanted to change her to a muslim religion, he was controlling, never let her wear sexy clothes, she's always working 7 days, she had no time for anything, with me it was all different, never controlled her, always gave her space, all fun throughout the 4 months.
Is this the case of all of red flags combined and she's fvcked up in the head?
She also like feels undeserving of being treated in this way and feels like OP is going to either realize he is too good for her and leave eventually or she sees OP as a weak for treating her like this in the first place.Freud used to say that we unconsciously look for something that is familiar and we feel attracted to it. That might be a reason why she is pulling away.
In that case, she needs professional help, otherwise she will only show emotions to the same patterns of her past experiences. It's like projecting those traumas and negative situations into actual relationships.
In any case, focus on your emotions. If that is hurting you, leave. Your well being and peace needs to come at first. You are not responsible to save her if she doesn't ask for help or show a genuine desire to change.
Unfortunately. In those cases it might be better for OP to just leave her.She also like feels undeserving of being treated in this way and feels like OP is going to either realize he is too good for her and leave eventually or she sees OP as a weak for treating her like this in the first place.
It was actually at night only, I did my normal things, I got sick for 4 days, she came at night, then other nights were just hooking up and she staying.Spent 10 days together? Too much bro. Give her time to miss you. What did you sacrifice in those 10 days? Don't you have any hobbies?
It was actually at night only, I did my normal things, I got sick for 4 days, she came at night, then other nights were just hooking up and she staying.
I've been fully on this forum for a couple of months, I should've known better
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It was also my fault, I gave her too much attention, instead of just casual dating her while seeing other women. But whats done is doneThis is an example of a woman with low self-esteem. We gravitate to what is familiar. As much as you fight it, you subconsciously are attracted to similar characteristics that you were exposed to while growing up in earlier years. I once heard a girl say, “what did I do to deserve you?”, “why do you always treat me so good?”. I honestly treated her like I treat anyone else. She just wasn’t used to it being treated with a basic level of respect and decency. She ended up finding a boyfriend that treated her poorly like she was used to.