"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why she blocked my phone number?

DJVladdy

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I am practicing my game and getting better and better. My style is pretty direct.

Last saturday I went to a strip club just to chill before going to bars with friends, and my eyes fell on this stripper sitting on my right. I immediately approach and start a conversation. Im making deep eye contact, telling her the right compliments, etc. then start kino (toching her thigh with my right hand, her shouler with my left).. while obviously maintaining eye contact and conversation. Kept doing that while changing the convo to more sexual. Mind you there was not even a thought of me buying a lap dance from her or anything. I did get a beer for her and me though.

As my whole "procedure" went on, I was noticing ALL the IOS's including her CONSTANTLY playing with a string of the bikkiki, giving me compliments, and most importantly, the glazed over eyes and the helpless "fvck me" facial expression". She said that shed love to leave with me, but she could not get out of her job, she'd get fired. Understandable.

I got her number, and to make the long story short - she blocked it after I left. I'm wondering WHY. My approach/escalation was better than I expected, she was clearly horny out of her mind after 20 minutes of our interaction (heavy kino was key). And why she did not want to have anything to do with me is a mystery.

Any ideas?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mahoney

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She is a stripper. In a strip club. Doing her job.
 

Chickfight

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She's a STRIPPER. Also, maybe she's had bad experiences with guys who regularly "chill" at strip clubs on their own.
 

georgie24

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lmao, u serious? this doesnt even belong here...oh man u have some livin to do
 

cablecow15

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she gave you her number thinking it would make you spend money on her , it dident , so she was like f this guy "blocked" also , how did she immediately block your number ? your supposed to just get her number then call like a week later, no need to exchange both of them or text so they got your number.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuanit0

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Are you sure it was her number and she didn't just do it to get to your wallet easier?!?
 

ArcBound

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DJVladdy said:
I am practicing my game and getting better and better. My style is pretty direct.

Last saturday I went to a strip club just to chill before going to bars with friends, and my eyes fell on this stripper sitting on my right. I immediately approach and start a conversation. Im making deep eye contact, telling her the right compliments, etc. then start kino (toching her thigh with my right hand, her shouler with my left).. while obviously maintaining eye contact and conversation. Kept doing that while changing the convo to more sexual. Mind you there was not even a thought of me buying a lap dance from her or anything. I did get a beer for her and me though.

As my whole "procedure" went on, I was noticing ALL the IOS's including her CONSTANTLY playing with a string of the bikkiki, giving me compliments, and most importantly, the glazed over eyes and the helpless "fvck me" facial expression". She said that shed love to leave with me, but she could not get out of her job, she'd get fired. Understandable.

I got her number, and to make the long story short - she blocked it after I left. I'm wondering WHY. My approach/escalation was better than I expected, she was clearly horny out of her mind after 20 minutes of our interaction (heavy kino was key). And why she did not want to have anything to do with me is a mystery.

Any ideas?
No freaking way. A stripper was *gasp* playing with her bikini string?? Giving "fvck me" facial expressions?? AND letting you feel all over them????!?!
 

Sue Madre

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She is a ho, stop worrying about it.

Stop trying to date wh0res and you will feel much better.
 

PDubb75

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I've read this 3 times trying to figure out if this is a joke.

...Let me try a 4th time...
 

Packers2010

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she's just hustlin man. anything to get a buck. if you met her OUT side the strip club would be a different story.

shes would have blocked you weather you spent the money or not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LoneWolf

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you went to a strip club and got a strippers number? i wouldn't even call that scoring. try a nightclub at least or some bar. i probably would of thrown the number out. strippers turn me off when it comes to anything else then looking at them naked. they are pieces of meat to me, not women.
 

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Man.. Come on. She's a stripper. Strippers are AWs who do sh1t like this for 2 reasons. Money and attention. Why would you even bother talking to a stripper in the first place? They're pretty much half a step above prostitutes.
 

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I cant imagine that youre serious.

Or if you are, that this actually bothers you.

Or that you dont realize what happened.

Or

OMG
 

DJVladdy

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Lol, actually she only dances on saturdays, has a full time job - masters degree in accounting. Seemed very down to earth and well-spoken. I dont think money is a problem to her - she does this stripper thing for fun.

Again, this is not a joke. I was seriously asking for feedback. I've moved on obviously and will keep trying in other places. No more strip clubs - they are pretty dirty. Thanks for the tough love fellas.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJVladdy

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And I promise to only get better. Soon I promise a much better field report.
 
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