Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why she blocked my phone number?

DJVladdy

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I am practicing my game and getting better and better. My style is pretty direct.

Last saturday I went to a strip club just to chill before going to bars with friends, and my eyes fell on this stripper sitting on my right. I immediately approach and start a conversation. Im making deep eye contact, telling her the right compliments, etc. then start kino (toching her thigh with my right hand, her shouler with my left).. while obviously maintaining eye contact and conversation. Kept doing that while changing the convo to more sexual. Mind you there was not even a thought of me buying a lap dance from her or anything. I did get a beer for her and me though.

As my whole "procedure" went on, I was noticing ALL the IOS's including her CONSTANTLY playing with a string of the bikkiki, giving me compliments, and most importantly, the glazed over eyes and the helpless "fvck me" facial expression". She said that shed love to leave with me, but she could not get out of her job, she'd get fired. Understandable.

I got her number, and to make the long story short - she blocked it after I left. I'm wondering WHY. My approach/escalation was better than I expected, she was clearly horny out of her mind after 20 minutes of our interaction (heavy kino was key). And why she did not want to have anything to do with me is a mystery.

Any ideas?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mahoney

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She is a stripper. In a strip club. Doing her job.
 

Chickfight

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She's a STRIPPER. Also, maybe she's had bad experiences with guys who regularly "chill" at strip clubs on their own.
 

georgie24

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lmao, u serious? this doesnt even belong here...oh man u have some livin to do
 

cablecow15

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she gave you her number thinking it would make you spend money on her , it dident , so she was like f this guy "blocked" also , how did she immediately block your number ? your supposed to just get her number then call like a week later, no need to exchange both of them or text so they got your number.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanit0

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Are you sure it was her number and she didn't just do it to get to your wallet easier?!?
 

ArcBound

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DJVladdy said:
I am practicing my game and getting better and better. My style is pretty direct.

Last saturday I went to a strip club just to chill before going to bars with friends, and my eyes fell on this stripper sitting on my right. I immediately approach and start a conversation. Im making deep eye contact, telling her the right compliments, etc. then start kino (toching her thigh with my right hand, her shouler with my left).. while obviously maintaining eye contact and conversation. Kept doing that while changing the convo to more sexual. Mind you there was not even a thought of me buying a lap dance from her or anything. I did get a beer for her and me though.

As my whole "procedure" went on, I was noticing ALL the IOS's including her CONSTANTLY playing with a string of the bikkiki, giving me compliments, and most importantly, the glazed over eyes and the helpless "fvck me" facial expression". She said that shed love to leave with me, but she could not get out of her job, she'd get fired. Understandable.

I got her number, and to make the long story short - she blocked it after I left. I'm wondering WHY. My approach/escalation was better than I expected, she was clearly horny out of her mind after 20 minutes of our interaction (heavy kino was key). And why she did not want to have anything to do with me is a mystery.

Any ideas?
No freaking way. A stripper was *gasp* playing with her bikini string?? Giving "fvck me" facial expressions?? AND letting you feel all over them????!?!
 

Sue Madre

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She is a ho, stop worrying about it.

Stop trying to date wh0res and you will feel much better.
 

PDubb75

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I've read this 3 times trying to figure out if this is a joke.

...Let me try a 4th time...
 

Packers2010

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she's just hustlin man. anything to get a buck. if you met her OUT side the strip club would be a different story.

shes would have blocked you weather you spent the money or not.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LoneWolf

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you went to a strip club and got a strippers number? i wouldn't even call that scoring. try a nightclub at least or some bar. i probably would of thrown the number out. strippers turn me off when it comes to anything else then looking at them naked. they are pieces of meat to me, not women.
 

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Man.. Come on. She's a stripper. Strippers are AWs who do sh1t like this for 2 reasons. Money and attention. Why would you even bother talking to a stripper in the first place? They're pretty much half a step above prostitutes.
 

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I cant imagine that youre serious.

Or if you are, that this actually bothers you.

Or that you dont realize what happened.

Or

OMG
 

DJVladdy

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Lol, actually she only dances on saturdays, has a full time job - masters degree in accounting. Seemed very down to earth and well-spoken. I dont think money is a problem to her - she does this stripper thing for fun.

Again, this is not a joke. I was seriously asking for feedback. I've moved on obviously and will keep trying in other places. No more strip clubs - they are pretty dirty. Thanks for the tough love fellas.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJVladdy

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And I promise to only get better. Soon I promise a much better field report.
 
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