"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why she blocked my phone number?

DJVladdy

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I am practicing my game and getting better and better. My style is pretty direct.

Last saturday I went to a strip club just to chill before going to bars with friends, and my eyes fell on this stripper sitting on my right. I immediately approach and start a conversation. Im making deep eye contact, telling her the right compliments, etc. then start kino (toching her thigh with my right hand, her shouler with my left).. while obviously maintaining eye contact and conversation. Kept doing that while changing the convo to more sexual. Mind you there was not even a thought of me buying a lap dance from her or anything. I did get a beer for her and me though.

As my whole "procedure" went on, I was noticing ALL the IOS's including her CONSTANTLY playing with a string of the bikkiki, giving me compliments, and most importantly, the glazed over eyes and the helpless "fvck me" facial expression". She said that shed love to leave with me, but she could not get out of her job, she'd get fired. Understandable.

I got her number, and to make the long story short - she blocked it after I left. I'm wondering WHY. My approach/escalation was better than I expected, she was clearly horny out of her mind after 20 minutes of our interaction (heavy kino was key). And why she did not want to have anything to do with me is a mystery.

Any ideas?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mahoney

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She is a stripper. In a strip club. Doing her job.
 

Chickfight

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She's a STRIPPER. Also, maybe she's had bad experiences with guys who regularly "chill" at strip clubs on their own.
 

georgie24

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lmao, u serious? this doesnt even belong here...oh man u have some livin to do
 

cablecow15

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she gave you her number thinking it would make you spend money on her , it dident , so she was like f this guy "blocked" also , how did she immediately block your number ? your supposed to just get her number then call like a week later, no need to exchange both of them or text so they got your number.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonJuanit0

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Are you sure it was her number and she didn't just do it to get to your wallet easier?!?
 

ArcBound

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DJVladdy said:
I am practicing my game and getting better and better. My style is pretty direct.

Last saturday I went to a strip club just to chill before going to bars with friends, and my eyes fell on this stripper sitting on my right. I immediately approach and start a conversation. Im making deep eye contact, telling her the right compliments, etc. then start kino (toching her thigh with my right hand, her shouler with my left).. while obviously maintaining eye contact and conversation. Kept doing that while changing the convo to more sexual. Mind you there was not even a thought of me buying a lap dance from her or anything. I did get a beer for her and me though.

As my whole "procedure" went on, I was noticing ALL the IOS's including her CONSTANTLY playing with a string of the bikkiki, giving me compliments, and most importantly, the glazed over eyes and the helpless "fvck me" facial expression". She said that shed love to leave with me, but she could not get out of her job, she'd get fired. Understandable.

I got her number, and to make the long story short - she blocked it after I left. I'm wondering WHY. My approach/escalation was better than I expected, she was clearly horny out of her mind after 20 minutes of our interaction (heavy kino was key). And why she did not want to have anything to do with me is a mystery.

Any ideas?
No freaking way. A stripper was *gasp* playing with her bikini string?? Giving "fvck me" facial expressions?? AND letting you feel all over them????!?!
 

Sue Madre

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She is a ho, stop worrying about it.

Stop trying to date wh0res and you will feel much better.
 

PDubb75

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I've read this 3 times trying to figure out if this is a joke.

...Let me try a 4th time...
 

Packers2010

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she's just hustlin man. anything to get a buck. if you met her OUT side the strip club would be a different story.

shes would have blocked you weather you spent the money or not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LoneWolf

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you went to a strip club and got a strippers number? i wouldn't even call that scoring. try a nightclub at least or some bar. i probably would of thrown the number out. strippers turn me off when it comes to anything else then looking at them naked. they are pieces of meat to me, not women.
 

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Man.. Come on. She's a stripper. Strippers are AWs who do sh1t like this for 2 reasons. Money and attention. Why would you even bother talking to a stripper in the first place? They're pretty much half a step above prostitutes.
 

powpow

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I cant imagine that youre serious.

Or if you are, that this actually bothers you.

Or that you dont realize what happened.

Or

OMG
 

DJVladdy

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Lol, actually she only dances on saturdays, has a full time job - masters degree in accounting. Seemed very down to earth and well-spoken. I dont think money is a problem to her - she does this stripper thing for fun.

Again, this is not a joke. I was seriously asking for feedback. I've moved on obviously and will keep trying in other places. No more strip clubs - they are pretty dirty. Thanks for the tough love fellas.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJVladdy

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And I promise to only get better. Soon I promise a much better field report.
 
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