"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why not?

Ethan

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Grr.

Hello all, I'm a long time lurker, first time poster, just looking for some advice.

So Uni had started, and there is this chick i am interested in. Got her phone number no probs the first time i talked to her.
The following day, we had a lecture together, she walks in, and sits right besides me and seemed really receptive.

Took some time to get to know her, just in lectures, ya know, talking, havn't had any time alone with her yet.

So today she mentioned she's busy on sat morning, and all day on sunday.
I said to her "we should do something in the afternoon on sat?"
Then said "just to get to know each other better?"

Her reply was "Why not" to both questions.
I don't want to over analyze, but she was looking down on the ground when i asked her that so....

Not sure what to make of this, what do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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muzicfreak2k3

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Maybe she was just being shy... don't over-analyze.
Go out with her Saturday... and see where it goes from there.
 

Damian

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Just ask her out to lunch or something after classes. I find that a lot easier. If you aren't too confident on just straight up asking a girl out to a full-on date, just ask her to eat some food with you.

As for the "Why not?" take it as a yes. Arrange a day and a time, or just hang out after or before lecture. Remember to run kino, it'll make her a lot more receptive to whatever you're going to say.
 

Supremo

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Yeah seriously? Don't over analyze anything a girl says. It'll screw you up and make you feel like **** cause more often than not you'll think of the worst case scenario. If she accepts, even if she doesn't sound enthused, she still accepted. Make her WANT to be enthusiastic about it by showing her a great time.

Good luck
 
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