"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why not?

Ethan

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Grr.

Hello all, I'm a long time lurker, first time poster, just looking for some advice.

So Uni had started, and there is this chick i am interested in. Got her phone number no probs the first time i talked to her.
The following day, we had a lecture together, she walks in, and sits right besides me and seemed really receptive.

Took some time to get to know her, just in lectures, ya know, talking, havn't had any time alone with her yet.

So today she mentioned she's busy on sat morning, and all day on sunday.
I said to her "we should do something in the afternoon on sat?"
Then said "just to get to know each other better?"

Her reply was "Why not" to both questions.
I don't want to over analyze, but she was looking down on the ground when i asked her that so....

Not sure what to make of this, what do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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muzicfreak2k3

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Maybe she was just being shy... don't over-analyze.
Go out with her Saturday... and see where it goes from there.
 

Damian

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Just ask her out to lunch or something after classes. I find that a lot easier. If you aren't too confident on just straight up asking a girl out to a full-on date, just ask her to eat some food with you.

As for the "Why not?" take it as a yes. Arrange a day and a time, or just hang out after or before lecture. Remember to run kino, it'll make her a lot more receptive to whatever you're going to say.
 

Supremo

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Yeah seriously? Don't over analyze anything a girl says. It'll screw you up and make you feel like **** cause more often than not you'll think of the worst case scenario. If she accepts, even if she doesn't sound enthused, she still accepted. Make her WANT to be enthusiastic about it by showing her a great time.

Good luck
 
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