Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why not?

Ethan

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Grr.

Hello all, I'm a long time lurker, first time poster, just looking for some advice.

So Uni had started, and there is this chick i am interested in. Got her phone number no probs the first time i talked to her.
The following day, we had a lecture together, she walks in, and sits right besides me and seemed really receptive.

Took some time to get to know her, just in lectures, ya know, talking, havn't had any time alone with her yet.

So today she mentioned she's busy on sat morning, and all day on sunday.
I said to her "we should do something in the afternoon on sat?"
Then said "just to get to know each other better?"

Her reply was "Why not" to both questions.
I don't want to over analyze, but she was looking down on the ground when i asked her that so....

Not sure what to make of this, what do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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muzicfreak2k3

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Maybe she was just being shy... don't over-analyze.
Go out with her Saturday... and see where it goes from there.
 

Damian

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Just ask her out to lunch or something after classes. I find that a lot easier. If you aren't too confident on just straight up asking a girl out to a full-on date, just ask her to eat some food with you.

As for the "Why not?" take it as a yes. Arrange a day and a time, or just hang out after or before lecture. Remember to run kino, it'll make her a lot more receptive to whatever you're going to say.
 

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Yeah seriously? Don't over analyze anything a girl says. It'll screw you up and make you feel like **** cause more often than not you'll think of the worst case scenario. If she accepts, even if she doesn't sound enthused, she still accepted. Make her WANT to be enthusiastic about it by showing her a great time.

Good luck
 
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