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Right. A woman knows if she would be open to the idea of sex with you right away. So if she MIGHT, (as opposed to Oh HELL No!) then you as a dude are not out of the woods. And that is where “Game” enters the picture.I’d posit something that was told to me once by a female friend and have confirmed several times over the years with women actively dating:
Women know in 60 seconds IF they might be willing to have sex with you, not if they are going to.
But seriously guys, hookers? Really?
This is very black pill. While I agree that looks are an important part of Game, it's not everything. Game is some combination of looks, money, status, and your personality.
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At 54 years old, you are an older member of Generation X. The black pill has been more associated with Millennials (the oldest ones are in their early 40s) and Gen Z. It's somewhat unusual for a Gen X'er to be black pill.Yes, Black Pill and 100% factual.
Looks are part of the story, not the whole story. They preselect based on your perceived status with them: how are other women responding to you,? do you look comfortable in your own skin? There are people on here who have classical good looks but they are not vibing properly because they don't believe in themselves and those insecure vibes undermine their good looks. You have ugly people on here that play the numbers game, don't care about rejections and score some victories that they feel great about (ie what is a victory for an ugly person is just another girl to a chad right so the feeling of reward and happiness is different)?
You don't say? The issue is that Millennials and Gen-Zs are more vocal on the internet and are able to express their views as streaming broadband internet was not as established in the 00s compared to now. It doesn't mean that these issues didn't exist before. In 2005 you had a movie out called "40 Year Virgin" and the 00s was a Gen-X decade (ie where Millennials are today). There was allot of hype and discussion about incel guys who were virgins going into their 40s in the mid-00s. The OP would be 36 years old in 2005.It's somewhat unusual for a Gen X'er to be black pill.
That's supposed to be an accomplishment? The pinnacle of seduction?The best playboy I know is trim but is nothing to look at really. But he LOVES women & Ive seen him literally talk the panties off the girl of his choice & go bang in the parking lot.
While Its cheaper for your pocket, its heavy priced for your soul.If you do a cost to benefit analysis, it’s actually cheaper to just pay a hooker for sex, rather than waste your time and money trying to pick up a woman in a bar, or nightclub.
Think about it logically, when you factor in the cost of nightclub entry fees, alcohol, food and taxi/Uber fares, it’s cheaper to pay for it, plus the sex with a hooker will be better (if she knows what she is doing).
You know it makes sense.
Oh, and it's very soul enriching to spend nights in bars and nightclubs and come home with nothing to show for it except blue balls. And when you finally manage to score, it's with a ditzy bimbo full of baggage.You might not say it out loud to yourself or even being aware/thinking it directly on a conscious level, but deep inside your soul knows and will keep nagging and reaffirm to you that you are loser every time you buy sex from a hoe. So in the long run its a self-destructive path.
Directly with cash or indirectly with your time, you pay either way. If you value your time, it's illogical to spend 10x the amount with no guarantee of getting sex. So it's not that you can't pull chicks on your own, it's that the time and effort investment make no sense.Paying for sex is like degrading yourself to be a loser because you basically admit to yourself that you cannot pull chicks on your own when you have to pay for it = I'm a fvcking (Maybe ugly too?/self image), loser with low confidence.
I said that too and there is a difference between both methods.Directly with cash or indirectly with your time, you pay either way
Well all good things takes investment and time thus is kind of a natural law e.g. input you put in equals --> the outcome and the result.x. So it's not that you can't pull chicks on your own, it's that the time and effort investment make no sense.
Nightclubs are probably the worst place to game, though dating apps are worse. But it also depends on your mindset. If you do not like it, you need to find other creative methods that works for you. Doing like everybody else and thinking it will work is madness.Oh, and it's very soul enriching to spend nights in bars and nightclubs and come home with nothing to show for it except blue balls
I don't see it that way. The guy that won the lottery is just the normie AFC that buys sex because he thinks that is his only option, plus it is the pathway of least resistance. Its too easy. Most people do not want to put in the effort and will end up with car that laughs at them on daily basis.@AureliusMaximus your Ferrari analogy would work if you'd compare a guy who seduces a clinically sane, attractive virgin vs a guy who won the lottery and buys a virgin from some dirt poor family.
Nightlife venues and dating apps are the two most common places for men to game. It is interesting that the two worst places are the two most common. It's very common for men to have bad experiences in both nightlife venues and while using dating apps.Nightclubs are probably the worst place to game, though dating apps are worse. But it also depends on your mindset. If you do not like it, you need to find other creative methods that works for you. Doing like everybody else and thinking it will work is madness.
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Well George Bernard Shaw said it once and I cannot say it better because I do believe its true:Nightlife venues and dating apps are the two most common places for men to game. It is interesting that the two worst places are the two most common. It's very common for men to have bad experiences in both nightlife venues and while using dating apps.
Approaching strangers in non-bar venues is also a difficult path too.
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The Blackpill is simply the truth on how male-female relationships work in the real world, I wouldn’t say the Blackpill is negative, just brutally honest.At 54 years old, you are an older member of Generation X. The black pill has been more associated with Millennials (the oldest ones are in their early 40s) and Gen Z. It's somewhat unusual for a Gen X'er to be black pill.
I've really seen the black pill grow in the last 7-10 years.
I would like to think of myself as more red pill than black pill but there are ideas from the black pill that make sense to me. I commonly post links to Wheat Waffles videos and Wheat Waffles has the most subscribers of any black pill content creator on YouTube.
I don't think having a black pill ideology helps men in terms of getting the penis wet. I don't know of any black pill guy that's getting a lot of poontang. Most top tier guys are not black pill. The black pill is more negative than the red pill. Why would a top tier guy getting a lot of poontang be negative?
I desire to attract and seduce.
Whilst what you say sounds plausible in theory, yes, a sex worker having a higher body count than your typical civilian woman has a greater chance of both spreading and catching a STD, statistically you have more chance of catching an STD from a civlian woman you hooked up with in a bar/nightclub. A few years ago, I checked the New South Wales Department of Health website (New South Wales is on the east coast of Australia, where I'm from), where it compiled all the statistics of the STDs caught by both civilians and sex workers, and it was actually civilians who had the highest rate of STDs, not hookers.Yeah, then get a std. Imagine the amount of people she is having sexual intercourse with
Technically I am an incel, a life long one, and I hate nightclubs (i can't stand dance/hip hop music, plus I don't drink alcohol), and I did approach women, but I gave up (too many instant rejections because of my ugly looks), so I said f*ck it, I'll just pay for it, and that's excatly what I've been doing for the past 35 years.I’d rather be an Incel then hunt for women at a night club lol.
What is your take on the red pill? The red pill is better than the blue pill.The Blackpill is simply the truth on how male-female relationships work in the real world, I wouldn’t say the Blackpill is negative, just brutally honest.
Trying to form healthy relationships with women in Australia isn't easy. Australia is a woke feminist shiithole. New South Wales is the state where Sydney is located. I can see why you have been judged harshly on looks in Australia with entitled feminist women chasing top tier men.New South Wales is on the east coast of Australia, where I'm from
That's harsh. 35 years ago, at age 19, you were sent to the rejection pile by Australian women. Ages 15-19 must have been brutal for you.past 35 years.