"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why is this girl being so cruel to me?

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BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission.

My happiness and my mission comes first.
I always will have a mission, drive, and enthusiasm in life. That she be added to the DJ bible.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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##17

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huskybear said:
BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission.

My happiness and my mission comes first.
I always will have a mission, drive, and enthusiasm in life. That she be added to the DJ bible.
Awesome. Good luck man!
 

chivalry_x

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penkitten said:
we are all put on this earth to interact with others, and out of that interaction, we learn things about ourselves and we grow.
You make it sound as though we were put here by a higher power, and thus imply our life has a purpose or 'method'. Get that out of your head.
 
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