"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why is this girl being so cruel to me?

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BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission.

My happiness and my mission comes first.
I always will have a mission, drive, and enthusiasm in life. That she be added to the DJ bible.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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huskybear said:
BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission.

My happiness and my mission comes first.
I always will have a mission, drive, and enthusiasm in life. That she be added to the DJ bible.
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Awesome. Good luck man!
 
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penkitten said:
we are all put on this earth to interact with others, and out of that interaction, we learn things about ourselves and we grow.
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You make it sound as though we were put here by a higher power, and thus imply our life has a purpose or 'method'. Get that out of your head.
 
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