"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why is this girl being so cruel to me?

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BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission.

My happiness and my mission comes first.
I always will have a mission, drive, and enthusiasm in life. That she be added to the DJ bible.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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##17

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huskybear said:
BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission.

My happiness and my mission comes first.
I always will have a mission, drive, and enthusiasm in life. That she be added to the DJ bible.
Awesome. Good luck man!
 

chivalry_x

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penkitten said:
we are all put on this earth to interact with others, and out of that interaction, we learn things about ourselves and we grow.
You make it sound as though we were put here by a higher power, and thus imply our life has a purpose or 'method'. Get that out of your head.
 
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