"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why is this girl being so cruel to me?

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BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission.

My happiness and my mission comes first.
I always will have a mission, drive, and enthusiasm in life. That she be added to the DJ bible.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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huskybear said:
BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission.

My happiness and my mission comes first.
I always will have a mission, drive, and enthusiasm in life. That she be added to the DJ bible.
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Awesome. Good luck man!
 
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penkitten said:
we are all put on this earth to interact with others, and out of that interaction, we learn things about ourselves and we grow.
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You make it sound as though we were put here by a higher power, and thus imply our life has a purpose or 'method'. Get that out of your head.
 
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