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Master Don Juan
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Om1xr....can u post field reports
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Why is this forum so full of toxicity?
- Thread starter Zion
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Eeehh, I mean, I have noticed it too, but it isn't a big deal, just spend some time away for a little bit. Then it will go away. I'm pretty selective with the topics I choose to open too. And with that aside, it's mostly just the same few posters who are negative. It actually has toned down a bit since a month ago though, but maybe it's cuz I frequent this place less now 
JohnnyWinner
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Because of angry pissed off dudes who can't get laid who take out their frustrations on the dudes who can.
Zion
Senior Don Juan
I stated my opinion clearly, and it has to do with the victim mentality we've been seeing so much of lately.G_Govan said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Serenity
Moderator
I found this forum because I got linked to the DJ Bible. That actually contains substance, much that proved true when I got around to trying stuff out. Thought the forum where these awesome posts came from would be pure gold, turns out it's more like a trash can.
This place will never have people sharing their ideas on a high level, because 80% of the user mass is randoms dropping by to get answers on superficial problems (quick fixes). The rest is the regulars trying to cover the insane demand of desperate men, and additionally fight and argue amongst themselves on meaningless details. Every once in a while some regular has a moment of clarity to write something really solid and not fvck up.
This place will never have people sharing their ideas on a high level, because 80% of the user mass is randoms dropping by to get answers on superficial problems (quick fixes). The rest is the regulars trying to cover the insane demand of desperate men, and additionally fight and argue amongst themselves on meaningless details. Every once in a while some regular has a moment of clarity to write something really solid and not fvck up.
Skinnylove
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Grewd said:
Nothing more to add.