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Om1xr....can u post field reports
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Why is this forum so full of toxicity?
- Thread starter Zion
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Eeehh, I mean, I have noticed it too, but it isn't a big deal, just spend some time away for a little bit. Then it will go away. I'm pretty selective with the topics I choose to open too. And with that aside, it's mostly just the same few posters who are negative. It actually has toned down a bit since a month ago though, but maybe it's cuz I frequent this place less now 
JohnnyWinner
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Because of angry pissed off dudes who can't get laid who take out their frustrations on the dudes who can.
Zion
Senior Don Juan
I stated my opinion clearly, and it has to do with the victim mentality we've been seeing so much of lately.G_Govan said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Serenity
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I found this forum because I got linked to the DJ Bible. That actually contains substance, much that proved true when I got around to trying stuff out. Thought the forum where these awesome posts came from would be pure gold, turns out it's more like a trash can.
This place will never have people sharing their ideas on a high level, because 80% of the user mass is randoms dropping by to get answers on superficial problems (quick fixes). The rest is the regulars trying to cover the insane demand of desperate men, and additionally fight and argue amongst themselves on meaningless details. Every once in a while some regular has a moment of clarity to write something really solid and not fvck up.
This place will never have people sharing their ideas on a high level, because 80% of the user mass is randoms dropping by to get answers on superficial problems (quick fixes). The rest is the regulars trying to cover the insane demand of desperate men, and additionally fight and argue amongst themselves on meaningless details. Every once in a while some regular has a moment of clarity to write something really solid and not fvck up.
Skinnylove
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Grewd said:
Nothing more to add.