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Master Don Juan
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Om1xr....can u post field reports
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I stated my opinion clearly, and it has to do with the victim mentality we've been seeing so much of lately.G_Govan said:You're speaking in generalities because you're fearful of a direct challenge to your opinion, which makes this post rather pointless.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Grewd said:I found this forum because I got linked to the DJ Bible. That actually contains substance, much that proved true when I got around to trying stuff out. Thought the forum where these awesome posts came from would be pure gold, turns out it's more like a trash can.
This place will never have people sharing their ideas on a high level, because 80% of the user mass is randoms dropping by to get answers on superficial problems (quick fixes). The rest is the regulars trying to cover the insane demand of desperate men, and additionally fight and argue amongst themselves on meaningless details. Every once in a while some regular has a moment of clarity to write something really solid and not fvck up.