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Master Don Juan
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Om1xr....can u post field reports
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why is this forum so full of toxicity?
- Thread starter Zion
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Eeehh, I mean, I have noticed it too, but it isn't a big deal, just spend some time away for a little bit. Then it will go away. I'm pretty selective with the topics I choose to open too. And with that aside, it's mostly just the same few posters who are negative. It actually has toned down a bit since a month ago though, but maybe it's cuz I frequent this place less now 
JohnnyWinner
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Because of angry pissed off dudes who can't get laid who take out their frustrations on the dudes who can.
Zion
Senior Don Juan
I stated my opinion clearly, and it has to do with the victim mentality we've been seeing so much of lately.G_Govan said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Serenity
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I found this forum because I got linked to the DJ Bible. That actually contains substance, much that proved true when I got around to trying stuff out. Thought the forum where these awesome posts came from would be pure gold, turns out it's more like a trash can.
This place will never have people sharing their ideas on a high level, because 80% of the user mass is randoms dropping by to get answers on superficial problems (quick fixes). The rest is the regulars trying to cover the insane demand of desperate men, and additionally fight and argue amongst themselves on meaningless details. Every once in a while some regular has a moment of clarity to write something really solid and not fvck up.
This place will never have people sharing their ideas on a high level, because 80% of the user mass is randoms dropping by to get answers on superficial problems (quick fixes). The rest is the regulars trying to cover the insane demand of desperate men, and additionally fight and argue amongst themselves on meaningless details. Every once in a while some regular has a moment of clarity to write something really solid and not fvck up.
Skinnylove
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Grewd said:
Nothing more to add.