"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why is the RedPill so Anti-Marriage?

The Duke

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Very true, the thing is I just don't understand why guys here biased against women with good careers.

I find it a huge plus actually. It indicates she has some higher intelligence as her position usually requires a degree, assuming she is not just in HR at a company or something.

If she is doing consulting/finance/anything technical she almost certainly has above average intelligence, is responsible, punctual, organized, all huge pluses and things most young women lack.
For me there is a sweet spot when it comes to LTR girls in regards to their career. Girls that are in management, executive level, etc, or high pressure jobs that pay very good money have a hard time disconnecting from work. They operate in a man's world all day long and in some ways pick up masculine habits that they bring home. They work long hours and are worn out at the end of the day, and not very flexible. You will feel the fallout. It kills their feminine energy and will take your male energy along with it.

I had the best luck with a pharmaceutical sales rep, dental hygienist, esthetician, marketing rep, and an accounts manager(did not manage people). They were all paid well, had good people skills, intelligent, and were good at leaving work at work and weren't so stressed out all the time. They weren't competing with men in board rooms all day.

The hardest ones to deal with in terms of how their career effected our relationship: was a VP of Marketing, Sr. Director of Sales. I'd much rather deal with the hassles of a single mom and her kids than the headaches that come with dating a woman in an executive level position.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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