"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why is the RedPill so Anti-Marriage?

The Duke

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Very true, the thing is I just don't understand why guys here biased against women with good careers.

I find it a huge plus actually. It indicates she has some higher intelligence as her position usually requires a degree, assuming she is not just in HR at a company or something.

If she is doing consulting/finance/anything technical she almost certainly has above average intelligence, is responsible, punctual, organized, all huge pluses and things most young women lack.
For me there is a sweet spot when it comes to LTR girls in regards to their career. Girls that are in management, executive level, etc, or high pressure jobs that pay very good money have a hard time disconnecting from work. They operate in a man's world all day long and in some ways pick up masculine habits that they bring home. They work long hours and are worn out at the end of the day, and not very flexible. You will feel the fallout. It kills their feminine energy and will take your male energy along with it.

I had the best luck with a pharmaceutical sales rep, dental hygienist, esthetician, marketing rep, and an accounts manager(did not manage people). They were all paid well, had good people skills, intelligent, and were good at leaving work at work and weren't so stressed out all the time. They weren't competing with men in board rooms all day.

The hardest ones to deal with in terms of how their career effected our relationship: was a VP of Marketing, Sr. Director of Sales. I'd much rather deal with the hassles of a single mom and her kids than the headaches that come with dating a woman in an executive level position.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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