"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why is it so hard to get to believe in yourself???

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Why is it so hard to get people to believe in themselves? I can teach you how to do things but I can't teach you to believe you can do them??

How did you guys got to believe in your game?

Case in point, I took GrassHopper shopping, one girl that was shopping in the store turns to us and tells GrassHopper he looks "cute". He turns around and tells her. "No, I don't."

Girl turns red and turns away.....Damn!!!

-Sapiens
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some things you can't teach people. Hopefully your friend will wake up one night at 4am as if coming out of a nightmare, and he'll say "oh, so THAT'S what I've been doing all wrong!".

Just point him in a good direction and he might learn, at least by osmosis.

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I hate to admit it, but I kept this girl friend around for a long time who would always beat me down with negative comments. I swear it's going to take a long time to get over the negativity she input into my subconscious! I'd say the women around us in our past go a ways to imparting such personal negativity.

On the opposite side, though, I've found associating bathroom visits with a good affirmation has helped a good bit. Still have quite a ways to go, of course.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Sapiens
How did you guys got to believe in your game?
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I don't have game to believe in; I believe in my lifestyle.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think are you asking how to motivate people. Changing your look on life has to been done from within...

So instead of trying to motivate then into being something different then they are I would suggest focusing on making them want to make change.
 
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