Oh yeah, interesting distinction. I mean, looks matter subconsciously and I'm not trying to argue that they don't. But they are ultimately shallow.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why is it so hard for me to get women
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Men with high SMV are consistently able to f*ck hot women.
Men with low SMV and "game" get lucky sometimes. If "game" was legit.. the success rate would be higher. Load of PUA clowns get rejected by the minute and they have "game". Something doesn't add up. Either "game" works or it doesn't. Obviously it doesn't lol.
Having an attractive personality definitely adds to your STATUS. Using "game" to pretend you have an attractive personality is pathetic.
A sh*t personality usually comes from a hermit lifestyle, lack of social experience or mental illness. Most guys have personalities that are compatible with the right woman. But they would rather use "game" to chase women who's personalities are not compatible with their own lol.
Soflobro#2
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Some people are conviced its money. Some are conviced its looks. It's really your mindset. Nothing on the outside.
But change is hard and you don't want to.
Because you are weak.
I have seen countless posts from you whining about being black, you're a pushover. Not just that, you also make up lies about actually having had success with women which no one buys but really, it is because you are weak. You are emotionally weak and a pushover and women pick up on this. They don't want a guy who needs a shoulder to cry on, you're the guy who needs a shoulder to cry on.
I have seen countless posts from you whining about being black, you're a pushover. Not just that, you also make up lies about actually having had success with women which no one buys but really, it is because you are weak. You are emotionally weak and a pushover and women pick up on this. They don't want a guy who needs a shoulder to cry on, you're the guy who needs a shoulder to cry on.
There is no such thing as "genetically inferior". Read catch women, one of the best guides that pretty nice explains what women want (they don't know actuallly what they want
), how to get their attention how NOT to look desperate and at the end how to play a game and win.I sow many times, pretty ugly guys, without money with great chicks, so it is all about your attitude. And if you think that you are as you said genetically inferior, if you can convince yourself that you are worthy of good and attractive woman how you will convince women?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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wifehunter
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Shallow sluts don't count. Oh wait, that's the majority.
Not true. Women who also are NOT genetically superior WILL love genetically inferior males.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Correct...or else, there would not be any 'so called' genetically inferior humans in existence.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I have to disagree. If girls were shallow and stupid I would never have had any problems getting chicks.
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Because subconsciously you dont feel good enough about yourself, you dont feel like you deserve them and your mind makes it so your actions, body language and interactions with women show this even without consciously thinking about it.
The problem starts with your mental self image of yourself.
MrWood
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OLD, one pic:
me:
I like your profile and your style also, thank you. I have some opinion of you... perhaps it is your lips, a sincere feature, attracted
her:
HI, thanks for your comment. Your pic looks nice too. Your eyesights look deep and warm.
I want to meet you
its corny crap, but my response with this pic comment has a 50% hit rate for non American women
me:
I like your profile and your style also, thank you. I have some opinion of you... perhaps it is your lips, a sincere feature, attracted
her:
HI, thanks for your comment. Your pic looks nice too. Your eyesights look deep and warm.
I want to meet you
its corny crap, but my response with this pic comment has a 50% hit rate for non American women
Exactly!