"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why is it I dont have feelings for girls??

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i am me

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dont go lookin for hos and youll eventually find someone who u care about more than sexually. its usually one of those nice girls who mite be a lil shy so try not to make it seem like ur some kinda bigtime playa cus they get intimidated sometimes
 

High Voltage

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Maybe all you want to do *is* fuk. Nothing wrong with that as long as you're not misleading the girls into thinking you want some type of relationship. Why do you want to care for them? Is it something you feel you need to do based on what is "right" and "wrong" in society? Listen to yourself, not society.
 
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High Voltage said:
Maybe all you want to do *is* fuk. Nothing wrong with that as long as you're not misleading the girls into thinking you want some type of relationship. Why do you want to care for them? Is it something you feel you need to do based on what is "right" and "wrong" in society? Listen to yourself, not society.
True good post, listenin to myself means i just want more puzzy :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Democles

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This is a stage and you will eventually outgrow it. Like another poster said, just don't mislead.
 

The Juan and only

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Maybe you're a homo in denial. /jk

like the other guys said, it's probably just a phase.
 

Tha Realnezz

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Me neither,never have never will..just sex.
 

BlackJackal

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Alot of fine woman are still people, so like most people they really dont have much to offer. I myself only no one woman who can at least stimulate my mind, and she's fine to. But I'm not LTR type person.:D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The thing you need to understand is that the only thing girls are good for is their pvssy. Personality wise, they are inferior in intelligence, logic, reasoning, loyalty, honesty, strategizing, self-control, judgement, integrity, and maturity.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KillaCam

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Hopefully it is just phase. I know this is definatly cliche, movie-like and corny, but all it can take is 1 girl and suddenly you're a whole new person.

Not trying to play psychologist or anything, but growing up, did you have a female role model? Such as a mother who was always there? Just a thought, but maybe a lack of feminine association growing up could have under-developed your more..caring side.

Either way, don't write yourself off. Keep smiling, mack the ladies, and things are sure to turn around in your favour.

Good luck.
 

squirrels

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Don't feel BAD for not having those feelings of closeness. When you find the right girl, assuming you respect YOURSELF, those feelings will come on their own. In the meantime, just enjoy the 'nani.
 
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