"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why is it I dont have feelings for girls??

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i am me

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dont go lookin for hos and youll eventually find someone who u care about more than sexually. its usually one of those nice girls who mite be a lil shy so try not to make it seem like ur some kinda bigtime playa cus they get intimidated sometimes
 

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Maybe all you want to do *is* fuk. Nothing wrong with that as long as you're not misleading the girls into thinking you want some type of relationship. Why do you want to care for them? Is it something you feel you need to do based on what is "right" and "wrong" in society? Listen to yourself, not society.
 
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High Voltage said:
Maybe all you want to do *is* fuk. Nothing wrong with that as long as you're not misleading the girls into thinking you want some type of relationship. Why do you want to care for them? Is it something you feel you need to do based on what is "right" and "wrong" in society? Listen to yourself, not society.
True good post, listenin to myself means i just want more puzzy :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Democles

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This is a stage and you will eventually outgrow it. Like another poster said, just don't mislead.
 

The Juan and only

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Maybe you're a homo in denial. /jk

like the other guys said, it's probably just a phase.
 

Tha Realnezz

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Me neither,never have never will..just sex.
 

BlackJackal

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Alot of fine woman are still people, so like most people they really dont have much to offer. I myself only no one woman who can at least stimulate my mind, and she's fine to. But I'm not LTR type person.:D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The thing you need to understand is that the only thing girls are good for is their pvssy. Personality wise, they are inferior in intelligence, logic, reasoning, loyalty, honesty, strategizing, self-control, judgement, integrity, and maturity.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hopefully it is just phase. I know this is definatly cliche, movie-like and corny, but all it can take is 1 girl and suddenly you're a whole new person.

Not trying to play psychologist or anything, but growing up, did you have a female role model? Such as a mother who was always there? Just a thought, but maybe a lack of feminine association growing up could have under-developed your more..caring side.

Either way, don't write yourself off. Keep smiling, mack the ladies, and things are sure to turn around in your favour.

Good luck.
 

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Don't feel BAD for not having those feelings of closeness. When you find the right girl, assuming you respect YOURSELF, those feelings will come on their own. In the meantime, just enjoy the 'nani.
 
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