"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why is everyone depressed?

Flabbergasped?

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Every other thread is a rant. People need to grab their balls, go out sarging, and post some FRs.

It's a bit annoying when the first page has about 3-4 of these "Yup, I'm depressed" threads. Blogging on this forum probably won't help you get over your depression.

In other news, I get the decision from Harvard in 19 hrs, holy shyt :crazy:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fender

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haha, agreed.

But look at the title of this forum- "High School Forum."

It's normal for hormonal teenagers to be all depressed "Nirvana, slit your wrists, woe is me" style. (Which is why I was against Highschoolers gaming- turbulent times in their lives- don't really need more complication from girls.)

Anyways, you'd be surprised how much more helpful it is to vent it all out. But maybe not here....talk to your friends about it. Not us. This is a dating site.

g'luck and good night.
 

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Good luck on the decision from Harvard. By the way, is anyone in here planning on going to the University of Michigan next year? I'll be going, so I was just wondering if anyone else is.
 

Flabbergasped?

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Got rejected from Harvard like Viper gets rejected by every thing with breasts he sees.

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I totally agree half of the people on this forum must be EMO or GOTHS and must slit their wrists. If you NEED help go see a damn therapist or suck it up, part of being a DJ is having a healthy straightfoward attitude and b*tching like chicks isn't a manly thing to do. If your depressed go get a hobby or go pick a fight. :rockon:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its due to the lack of prirates that everyone is depressed.

yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
I totally agree half of the people on this forum must be EMO or GOTHS and must slit their wrists. If you NEED help go see a damn therapist or suck it up, part of being a DJ is having a healthy straightfoward attitude and b*tching like chicks isn't a manly thing to do. If your depressed go get a hobby or go pick a fight. :rockon:
These kids dont need help or a therapist. Their lives are sh*tty so they feel a little down, but in reality their not that bad. All depression is is time to reasses ones life. These passified wankers need to get some goals and stop being so GODDAMN EMO!
 

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Well all I'm gonna say is that I'm not emo, and definately not goth. I may've made a thread about how I'm depressed, and I may've dated a hella emo, bordering goth chick, but that's only made me hate emo and goth people even more. I may've drifted a little into emoness. But now I feel like a normal person again! And boy am I happy. I'm never dating an emo chick or befriending an emo person again.
 

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Soniq_red said:
low man.
sorry about the Harvard thing but man you don't need to do
personal attacks. This is a self-betterment forum no flaming.
All in good fun, Soniq. All in good fun.
 
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