"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why is everyone depressed?

Flabbergasped?

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Every other thread is a rant. People need to grab their balls, go out sarging, and post some FRs.

It's a bit annoying when the first page has about 3-4 of these "Yup, I'm depressed" threads. Blogging on this forum probably won't help you get over your depression.

In other news, I get the decision from Harvard in 19 hrs, holy shyt :crazy:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fender

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haha, agreed.

But look at the title of this forum- "High School Forum."

It's normal for hormonal teenagers to be all depressed "Nirvana, slit your wrists, woe is me" style. (Which is why I was against Highschoolers gaming- turbulent times in their lives- don't really need more complication from girls.)

Anyways, you'd be surprised how much more helpful it is to vent it all out. But maybe not here....talk to your friends about it. Not us. This is a dating site.

g'luck and good night.
 

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Good luck on the decision from Harvard. By the way, is anyone in here planning on going to the University of Michigan next year? I'll be going, so I was just wondering if anyone else is.
 

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Got rejected from Harvard like Viper gets rejected by every thing with breasts he sees.

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I totally agree half of the people on this forum must be EMO or GOTHS and must slit their wrists. If you NEED help go see a damn therapist or suck it up, part of being a DJ is having a healthy straightfoward attitude and b*tching like chicks isn't a manly thing to do. If your depressed go get a hobby or go pick a fight. :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its due to the lack of prirates that everyone is depressed.

yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
I totally agree half of the people on this forum must be EMO or GOTHS and must slit their wrists. If you NEED help go see a damn therapist or suck it up, part of being a DJ is having a healthy straightfoward attitude and b*tching like chicks isn't a manly thing to do. If your depressed go get a hobby or go pick a fight. :rockon:
These kids dont need help or a therapist. Their lives are sh*tty so they feel a little down, but in reality their not that bad. All depression is is time to reasses ones life. These passified wankers need to get some goals and stop being so GODDAMN EMO!
 

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Well all I'm gonna say is that I'm not emo, and definately not goth. I may've made a thread about how I'm depressed, and I may've dated a hella emo, bordering goth chick, but that's only made me hate emo and goth people even more. I may've drifted a little into emoness. But now I feel like a normal person again! And boy am I happy. I'm never dating an emo chick or befriending an emo person again.
 

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Soniq_red said:
low man.
sorry about the Harvard thing but man you don't need to do
personal attacks. This is a self-betterment forum no flaming.
All in good fun, Soniq. All in good fun.
 
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