Dhoulmagus
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more like worst
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You start off with one.sylvester the cat said:How did you get a green dot?
how did he start off with one?Maximus Rex said:You start off with one.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
True story.cordoncordon said:It is all part of the giant scam, controlled by the powers that be and driven by the media, to sucker young Americans into paying astronomical prices and fees, thereby going into massive debt, and to keep them out of the workforce for 4-5 years. Going to college is one of the bigger fallacies/scams/conspiracies out there. Just another money making scheme controlled by the old money puppeters of the world.
Yup. They want to flood the market with "educated" people to drive wages down.cordoncordon said:It is all part of the giant scam, controlled by the powers that be and driven by the media, to sucker young Americans into paying astronomical prices and fees, thereby going into massive debt, and to keep them out of the workforce for 4-5 years. Going to college is one of the bigger fallacies/scams/conspiracies out there. Just another money making scheme controlled by the old money puppeters of the world.
Best four years of your life? I heard that about high school. Pfft. I frigging hated high school, couldn't wait to get out. Everybody told me I would miss it, but after I graduated I hardly ever thought about it again, didn't miss it a bit. The work world isn't necessarily much fun either, but at least you have some independence.Dhoulmagus said:more like worst
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Same here. I went to a small state college, partied a lot, had fun, did well enough to get into grad school at a major state college. I love talking about the old times with buddies, but now 18-21 year olds seem sooo ****ing obnoxious - def couldnt go back.MtnMan said:True story.
I had fun in college and do use my degree (engineer) but i wouldn't do it again.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can't better your self in collegenarcissist said:Every year progressively becomes the best year of your life IF you are on the path of bettering yourself perpetually
People really need to realize this tenant and live by it
Dhoulmagus said:You can't better your self in college
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.