Dhoulmagus
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more like worst
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You start off with one.sylvester the cat said:How did you get a green dot?
how did he start off with one?Maximus Rex said:You start off with one.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
True story.cordoncordon said:It is all part of the giant scam, controlled by the powers that be and driven by the media, to sucker young Americans into paying astronomical prices and fees, thereby going into massive debt, and to keep them out of the workforce for 4-5 years. Going to college is one of the bigger fallacies/scams/conspiracies out there. Just another money making scheme controlled by the old money puppeters of the world.
Yup. They want to flood the market with "educated" people to drive wages down.cordoncordon said:It is all part of the giant scam, controlled by the powers that be and driven by the media, to sucker young Americans into paying astronomical prices and fees, thereby going into massive debt, and to keep them out of the workforce for 4-5 years. Going to college is one of the bigger fallacies/scams/conspiracies out there. Just another money making scheme controlled by the old money puppeters of the world.
Best four years of your life? I heard that about high school. Pfft. I frigging hated high school, couldn't wait to get out. Everybody told me I would miss it, but after I graduated I hardly ever thought about it again, didn't miss it a bit. The work world isn't necessarily much fun either, but at least you have some independence.Dhoulmagus said:more like worst
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Same here. I went to a small state college, partied a lot, had fun, did well enough to get into grad school at a major state college. I love talking about the old times with buddies, but now 18-21 year olds seem sooo ****ing obnoxious - def couldnt go back.MtnMan said:True story.
I had fun in college and do use my degree (engineer) but i wouldn't do it again.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You can't better your self in collegenarcissist said:Every year progressively becomes the best year of your life IF you are on the path of bettering yourself perpetually
People really need to realize this tenant and live by it
Dhoulmagus said:You can't better your self in college
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.