Dhoulmagus
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more like worst
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You start off with one.sylvester the cat said:How did you get a green dot?
how did he start off with one?Maximus Rex said:You start off with one.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
True story.cordoncordon said:It is all part of the giant scam, controlled by the powers that be and driven by the media, to sucker young Americans into paying astronomical prices and fees, thereby going into massive debt, and to keep them out of the workforce for 4-5 years. Going to college is one of the bigger fallacies/scams/conspiracies out there. Just another money making scheme controlled by the old money puppeters of the world.
Yup. They want to flood the market with "educated" people to drive wages down.cordoncordon said:It is all part of the giant scam, controlled by the powers that be and driven by the media, to sucker young Americans into paying astronomical prices and fees, thereby going into massive debt, and to keep them out of the workforce for 4-5 years. Going to college is one of the bigger fallacies/scams/conspiracies out there. Just another money making scheme controlled by the old money puppeters of the world.
Best four years of your life? I heard that about high school. Pfft. I frigging hated high school, couldn't wait to get out. Everybody told me I would miss it, but after I graduated I hardly ever thought about it again, didn't miss it a bit. The work world isn't necessarily much fun either, but at least you have some independence.Dhoulmagus said:more like worst
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Same here. I went to a small state college, partied a lot, had fun, did well enough to get into grad school at a major state college. I love talking about the old times with buddies, but now 18-21 year olds seem sooo ****ing obnoxious - def couldnt go back.MtnMan said:True story.
I had fun in college and do use my degree (engineer) but i wouldn't do it again.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You can't better your self in collegenarcissist said:Every year progressively becomes the best year of your life IF you are on the path of bettering yourself perpetually
People really need to realize this tenant and live by it
Dhoulmagus said:You can't better your self in college
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.