"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why in the hell am i home on a Saturday night?

Ricky

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Having problems with the gf

Decided to stop drinking

But still why the hell am I at home on a Saturday. At the very least I should be doing something more productive than surfing.

I have done a bit of reading for my research and second masters degree but still.

Just proves that you can waste time so easily.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why in the hell am i home on a Saturday night?

I don't know why...why don't you tell me why your home on a saturday night. I'm home because my mother just had a stroke. What's your excuse.

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Dude you can take some days off to chill, do hobbies, watch some tv or something like that, Relax.
 
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There is a big party going on down the street from my house right now, but i kinda dont wanna go cuz its full of gangster type rap guys and i dont associate with guys like that. But DJing some chicks is pretty tempting!
 
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Originally posted by Sterling the Runner
There is a big party going on down the street from my house right now, but i kinda dont wanna go cuz its full of gangster type rap guys and i dont associate with guys like that. But DJing some chicks is pretty tempting!
Well if your the type that needs to hang out on a how to get a date type of site and going to a party where some real thuggish playa's are kickin it.

I'd say stay home. Those big dawgs bite.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TonyHeatDaDon

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lol thats funny son. Gangster type rap guys. Yo you had me on the floor literally crying with that one. Damn is that how the typical teenage black male in america is viewed? You cool family.
 
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Hey I know of a few of those guys from school and they r cool n all and I like to talk to them and hang out, at school, but I personally do not like rap and the baggy pants walkin around Calling every one a f***in Bit**. Thats just not who I am and Iwill never be that way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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naw man no offense taken I don't even care to tell you the truth its just the way you said it was hilarious.
 
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