"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why in the hell am i home on a Saturday night?

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Having problems with the gf

Decided to stop drinking

But still why the hell am I at home on a Saturday. At the very least I should be doing something more productive than surfing.

I have done a bit of reading for my research and second masters degree but still.

Just proves that you can waste time so easily.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why in the hell am i home on a Saturday night?

I don't know why...why don't you tell me why your home on a saturday night. I'm home because my mother just had a stroke. What's your excuse.

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Dude you can take some days off to chill, do hobbies, watch some tv or something like that, Relax.
 
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There is a big party going on down the street from my house right now, but i kinda dont wanna go cuz its full of gangster type rap guys and i dont associate with guys like that. But DJing some chicks is pretty tempting!
 
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Originally posted by Sterling the Runner
There is a big party going on down the street from my house right now, but i kinda dont wanna go cuz its full of gangster type rap guys and i dont associate with guys like that. But DJing some chicks is pretty tempting!
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Well if your the type that needs to hang out on a how to get a date type of site and going to a party where some real thuggish playa's are kickin it.

I'd say stay home. Those big dawgs bite.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol thats funny son. Gangster type rap guys. Yo you had me on the floor literally crying with that one. Damn is that how the typical teenage black male in america is viewed? You cool family.
 
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Hey I know of a few of those guys from school and they r cool n all and I like to talk to them and hang out, at school, but I personally do not like rap and the baggy pants walkin around Calling every one a f***in Bit**. Thats just not who I am and Iwill never be that way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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naw man no offense taken I don't even care to tell you the truth its just the way you said it was hilarious.
 
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