"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas

Scaramouche

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Ironically the Philippines ( like most Asian countries)have no strong religious culture.

It mostly all talk that western men wanna hear. Deep down inside those women have zero merci
Hi Gamisch,
Loved your thoughts on " ...a piece of flesh the size of a coin",but having visited just before Covid I was genuinely surprised at just how religious they all are!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There are men who get to their mid to late 30s as childless men and get a strong urge to pair bond. Pair bonding for blue pill ideology men usually looks like monogamous marriage and having children.
I see it all around me every day.

Yet I strongly disagree. Why? Because;

- you'll be climbing trees, kicking balls, and playing hide and seek while you're turning 50
- sometimes a man gotta accept that it's just ain't for him.

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the best way to get a woman's heart is by HER choice. You can't be roaming this earth being that powerless.

- OP recently asked for movie characters as examples. Most strong male characters been through hardship and been through it all. Let that be a lesson by itself
 

zekko

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Surprised how men can simply say they will “go overseas” and raise a family.

Men don’t speak the language there , they don’t know the laws there. they don’t have a home there, they don’t have a job there, they don’t have relatives there, there don’t have friends there, but they are going to “raise a family” there like it’s eating chocolate cake.

I mean more power to the man if he can do it, but you guys make it sound so easy.
Good questions. Seems the best way to accomplish this would be to already be independently wealthy.
But I will add that I've always been attracted to Filipinas.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Deep State is worldwide OP. No place to run or hide from the rot/corruption/hostile elitism anymore.
 

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I’ve dated Chinese and Vietnamese girls in the past.

I’ve found Chinese girls to be fixated on how much $ you bring to the table (they actually asked me my net financial worth, it’s a deal breaker to them but at least they’re upfront about it). They can also tend to view bedroom action as just another chore they need to do to satisfy their partner and can be very lazy, introverted or non-enthusiastic in this regard.

With Vietnamese girls you marry into their family and are expected to entertain visitors, attend family gatherings, financially support their parents etc. Their preferred diet is very seafood based which I don’t like. They are very submissive in bed and will usually do whatever you want them to do but can be quite shy.

Don’t underestimate the cultural differences if dating a foreign woman.
 
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