"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas

Scaramouche

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Ironically the Philippines ( like most Asian countries)have no strong religious culture.

It mostly all talk that western men wanna hear. Deep down inside those women have zero merci
Hi Gamisch,
Loved your thoughts on " ...a piece of flesh the size of a coin",but having visited just before Covid I was genuinely surprised at just how religious they all are!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gamisch

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There are men who get to their mid to late 30s as childless men and get a strong urge to pair bond. Pair bonding for blue pill ideology men usually looks like monogamous marriage and having children.
I see it all around me every day.

Yet I strongly disagree. Why? Because;

- you'll be climbing trees, kicking balls, and playing hide and seek while you're turning 50
- sometimes a man gotta accept that it's just ain't for him.

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the best way to get a woman's heart is by HER choice. You can't be roaming this earth being that powerless.

- OP recently asked for movie characters as examples. Most strong male characters been through hardship and been through it all. Let that be a lesson by itself
 

zekko

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Surprised how men can simply say they will “go overseas” and raise a family.

Men don’t speak the language there , they don’t know the laws there. they don’t have a home there, they don’t have a job there, they don’t have relatives there, there don’t have friends there, but they are going to “raise a family” there like it’s eating chocolate cake.

I mean more power to the man if he can do it, but you guys make it sound so easy.
Good questions. Seems the best way to accomplish this would be to already be independently wealthy.
But I will add that I've always been attracted to Filipinas.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Deep State is worldwide OP. No place to run or hide from the rot/corruption/hostile elitism anymore.
 

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I’ve dated Chinese and Vietnamese girls in the past.

I’ve found Chinese girls to be fixated on how much $ you bring to the table (they actually asked me my net financial worth, it’s a deal breaker to them but at least they’re upfront about it). They can also tend to view bedroom action as just another chore they need to do to satisfy their partner and can be very lazy, introverted or non-enthusiastic in this regard.

With Vietnamese girls you marry into their family and are expected to entertain visitors, attend family gatherings, financially support their parents etc. Their preferred diet is very seafood based which I don’t like. They are very submissive in bed and will usually do whatever you want them to do but can be quite shy.

Don’t underestimate the cultural differences if dating a foreign woman.
 
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